eyebeams said:
The way to resolve this insecurity is to regularly test your abilities against a resistant partner, not via a pep talk.
Ack! No! Don't do it and develop bad habits!!!
When you say 'resistant partner' I get the image of one person trying to do something like
oni kudaki and the other guy trying to prevent that technique from being applied. That would be the absolute worse way to train.
If someone tries to stop you from doing technque A, he open himself up to techniques B,C,D and E. And in this art, you don't hit a guy from the direction that he is expecting it to come from.
So, if the other guy has enough forknowledge that
oni kudaki is coming to set up resistence, the last thing you want to do is give it to him. Instead of doing "
Oni Kudaki or bust" as I call it, as soon as he starts to think something is coming, you flow into something else and catch him unawares. To train against a resistent partner would be to train yourself to do the opposite of this.
Now I agree that your partner should not throw himself across the room like a Ron Duncan uke. If the uke has set up the proper attack for the technique being practiced and the practicioner can't get the elements down, then the fact that it is not working is good feedback. And if the practicioner is so focused on doing
oni kudaki that he leaves something wide open, then at a slightly advanced level the uke should make it known by some means like touching him there. This type of training can get out of hand with people trying to count coup on each other. Traditionally, only senior students did it to younger ones. When you have bokuto, this can get real stressfull and interesting. There are threads on the subject here.
But 'resistance' is not something the partner should be doing. Pointing out openings, not 'giving' the technique, maybe (at an advanced level) throwing in unscripted stuff- yes. But no,
Oni Kudaki or bust for me thank you.