Daniel, I mentioned her obesity because it is pertinent to the discussion of mcdojo. It shows the level of intensity and the overall quality of the instruction. IMHO the proper learning of martial arts, should foster physical fitness. I know how HUGE I was when I started martial arts, over 420lbs. I have lost nearly a hundred pounds with a good diet and martial arts alone.. Her weight is very much pertinent to the discussion. This is typical of Mcdojo's their training is usually so pathetic, so slow and low paced that you don't ever get even a mild work out in, let alone learn a martial art.
We'll have to agree to disagree on that one. I've had instructors who are svelte and trim who were horrible and one instructor who was coincidentally female who started off obese and eventually was morbidly obese, though not as heavy as the lady you mentioned. This lady was an excellent instructor. Her school was not a McDojo. I learned a lot from her, and she really helped me to make some breakthroughs in technique that two previous svelte instructors had been unable to help me with. Not that they were bad instructors, but she had the key to the puzzle that I was trying to unlock.
I got to know her well enough to know why she was the way that she was. She didn't have an easy life outside of the dojang. As a business owner, she stumbled a lot, but as a human being and as an instructor, she was wonderful.
And lest anyone think that I'm being defensive, I'm not. I happen to be one of the svelte, trim people who would look at home on the cover of an MA catalog wearing their featured gi or dobok.
Why should I trust her or any other martial arts instructor, mcdojo or not when they are morbidly obese? If they cant get there own self together what makes them think they can teach anyone a activity this is decidedly physical in nature?
You shouldn't trust anyone based on their looks. I tend to look at the quality of the students they turn out and how I feel about the environment after a class. I look at the black belts/yudansha/equivalent and see what their practice looks like, as that says more about the teacher than the teacher's physique.
But even if the students look like the Korean Olympic team, if I don't feel right about the environment, then I move on. So far, the weight of the instructor has never been a factor in a negative training environment for me. The issues generally are more in the instructional culture of the studio.
There was a time when I would subject myself to unhealthy training environments because the studio selection wasn't all that great, but now I have lots of choices in many arts to choose from and I have a much clearer idea of what I want from a school than I did when I was younger.
Additionally, the McDojos that I have encountered have been owned and staffed largely (though by no means exclusively) by people who were at healthy weights. Perhaps it's the area, but I haven't found weight and McDojo-ism to have any direct connection.
To each their own. I'm not going to tell you not to feel as you do, and based on your response, this seems to be a fairly deeply seated belief for you, but I respectfully disagree.