And from experience I hope... since nothing goes exactly according to text book.
As for dropping the race card... that is hard to do. Its not easy to understand unless you've had similar experiences. Would it be easy for you to ignorepeople treating you as a second class citizen? Sure, the race card is abused but after being pulled over numerous times for cops to see if your car truly is yours, or if you have been followed in stores because you don't like you belong throughout your life, you start to see things through a racial lens. These lens are hard to discard. As such I would't say drop the race card, I'd rather say minimize the using race card.
One can't ignore something like that.
As a person that used to be very orthodox in my faith, I used to wear a turban or some sort of religious headdress on my head every time I was in public. I know what it is like to - literally overnight - take on the visage of one of the most despised stereotypes in America.
I was in the NYC area over 9/11. My boss and I were doing an installation at a large company. I saw hate in the eyes of some of the travelers that were stranded at the hotel with me because we couldn't go home. I saw it in the eyes of the people on the Amtrak train driving through the still-smoldering NYC to Boston, the departure point of the two planes that bombed the twin towers. I got home to the condo I was in the process of losing in my divorce around midday on the 12th. I was pretty shaken from all the events and just put on the TV and vegged out. That provided no escape. Shortly after I tuned in, I watched a good friend and brother in faith
arrested on an Amtrak train in Providence. To add to the stereotype, one of the cable news networks showed the picture of my friend (as seen on the link) alongside a picture of Osama Bin Laden.
Work didn't stop. I got plenty of ugly looks flying to NYC, I got just as many flying to Montreal, which required flying out of the international wing at Logan Airport. I instantly became the person "randomly selected" to have my luggage dug through or whatever. Flying down south was arguably worse. The TSA and airline people in BOS, NYC, and MTL at least tried to act professionally. In Norfolk or Raleigh it was usually an unwavering stare accompanied by "Alllllllllright, now you jes' step over here so we can (fill in the blank)"
In December of 2001, someone in Norfolk even sent a female TSA agent to the boarding area to give me a second pat down and wanding before I got on the plane. She kept testing her metal detector wand with her keys to ensure it worked, she seemed convinced that I was up to no good. A few minutes before we were supposed to close up and take off, the Norfolk Police boarded the plane, looking for me. I was to come off the plane, with my bags. I can only imagine the people on board were frightened by what they saw. (I wasn't in trouble. The officers had come to get me because my father had just died.)
I didn't have any serious run-ins with law enforcement. I know many other Sikhs that did, including my ex who had a terrible run-in with the U.S. Secret Service at a large, public U.S. Department of Homeland Security event. (My ex was a DHS employee, with a security clearance, with DHS ID around his neck, working the event). Another friend went to do some routine immigration paperwork, and met up with a overzealous DHS officer that commented on my friend's turban and dug deeply in to his records. The officer discovered a technicality in my friend's visa processing. My friend was thrown in to federal prison. He was there for while lawyers traced the liability to a mistake by an immigration attorney in Chicago. It took 3 or 4 months for the charges to be dropped and my friend freed.
I don't think I can turn a blind eye to misunderstandings or even overly aggressive actions because of ethnic appearance. But my own thoughts echo that of SALDEF and other organizations that have come to the aid of American Sikhs in crisis - the answers can be found in education, documentation, and follow up through the proper channels....not in fighting (literally or figuratively) with law enforcement.