sgtmac_46
Senior Master
First, Dr. Gates is not a 5 year old child.
Second, did you let your child misbehave or defy you indefinitely? Or did a time come where you took some sort of disciplinary action, and actually stuck with it? You empowered the child's defiance by drawing the line, than shifting it back. Sgt. Crowley drew the line. But when Dr. Gates crossed it, the sergeant took action. He had to, if he wanted respect down the road.
BINGO! The empowerment for the 5 year old didn't come from drawing the LINE.......but the from the guilt trip that caused him to change his mind. Fair, Firm and Consistent are the watchwords.........some folks seem to want to eliminate 'Firm and Consistent' because it makes them 'feel guilty'.