Matt Stone
Master of Arts
In the process of moving from Japan to Washington state, so I have been offline the past few weeks...
DKI Girl posted:
to which I replied:
And then DKI Girl re-replied:
My first comment is that if we are going to, as commercially oriented instructors, "sell" our information for a meal ticket, then we have a certain ethical obligation (in my opinion) not to sell "lemons." If we sell the information, we sell all of it, or we at least inform the buyer that they are not receiving the full transmission. Failing to do so arms the buyer with the belief that he/she does possess the full transmission, and in the event they are confronted with the regrettable situation of having to use that information in defense of their own life, or worse yet they feel a need to begin teaching the information themselves, the end result is yet another woefully inadequate information base.
Bottom line, if you have someone that is questionable in their intent, don't teach them at all. If you are going to open a seminar to any Tom/Dick/Harry, you need to teach them what you claim you are teaching them. Watering it down could amount to fraud in some circumstances if you claim you will teach them the ancient secrets of the death touch, and all they get is the ancient secrets of the knockout touch... Ethically, some of these nincompoops may actually one day put their butts on the line thinking they know enough to do more than pass their wallet on to a new owner, and may end up in the E.R. getting stitched up for their troubles... If we claim to teach self-defense, and we teach our students techniques that are not fully transmitted, nor fully effective due to a lack of understanding, we have failed our students terribly.
Now, I can understand not wanting to pass certain info on to certain individuals... Exclude them entirely. It is still legally possible to restrict the attendance to such seminars. This may reduce such a need to monitor what is being taught to whom... Of course, there is that whole "don't teach this kind of information at a seminar" theory (to which I personally adhere) that will preclude the wondering of whether a person is "worthy enough" to possess the full transmission in the first place.
Just my rather untimely and late 2 yen, soon to be 2 cents...
DKI Girl posted:
there is also that point that not everyone needs to know everything
to which I replied:
I will wait on a reply until you provide a better explanation (I don't want to run off at the mouth because of a misunderstanding...).
And then DKI Girl re-replied:
Okay....let's say I am attending a seminar given by a DKI instructor. I am moving around helping out those that need assistance and I meet someone that is rude or of questionable behavior. Further along in the seminar, the instructor does a technique that causes a KO or some other affect. I know that the instructor is using several points together because of the location or of the technique that I saw him or her use. The person that I came across earlier in the seminar comes up to me and asks questions about the technique. I then can either refer him or her to the instructor of the seminar or choose not to "tell all" about the technique because I question their attitude....
My first comment is that if we are going to, as commercially oriented instructors, "sell" our information for a meal ticket, then we have a certain ethical obligation (in my opinion) not to sell "lemons." If we sell the information, we sell all of it, or we at least inform the buyer that they are not receiving the full transmission. Failing to do so arms the buyer with the belief that he/she does possess the full transmission, and in the event they are confronted with the regrettable situation of having to use that information in defense of their own life, or worse yet they feel a need to begin teaching the information themselves, the end result is yet another woefully inadequate information base.
Bottom line, if you have someone that is questionable in their intent, don't teach them at all. If you are going to open a seminar to any Tom/Dick/Harry, you need to teach them what you claim you are teaching them. Watering it down could amount to fraud in some circumstances if you claim you will teach them the ancient secrets of the death touch, and all they get is the ancient secrets of the knockout touch... Ethically, some of these nincompoops may actually one day put their butts on the line thinking they know enough to do more than pass their wallet on to a new owner, and may end up in the E.R. getting stitched up for their troubles... If we claim to teach self-defense, and we teach our students techniques that are not fully transmitted, nor fully effective due to a lack of understanding, we have failed our students terribly.
Now, I can understand not wanting to pass certain info on to certain individuals... Exclude them entirely. It is still legally possible to restrict the attendance to such seminars. This may reduce such a need to monitor what is being taught to whom... Of course, there is that whole "don't teach this kind of information at a seminar" theory (to which I personally adhere) that will preclude the wondering of whether a person is "worthy enough" to possess the full transmission in the first place.
Just my rather untimely and late 2 yen, soon to be 2 cents...