Shame on them! I cannot even comprehend
NOT going to see, and talk, to the Ruffians new teachers at the start of the year. Shoot I usually set up a meeting a week or so after the new school year begins. Just to see if there is any question they have about my boys and to touch base with them and let the teacher know I will help in anyway that is needed.
We also are parents that go over the kids homework and notes every night. The boys know, as soon as they get off the bus and come in the house, Mom or Dad is right there to go through their backpacks and get them set-up with their homework. I know I always liked it when that happened to me (even though I bitched about it loud and long!)