Personal spat? Taking ourselves too seriousl Ah I see a joke?
I wasn't debating what it takes to be an American. I don't know what it's like to be an American that's why I was asking! I seriously wanted to know what Americans think being an good American is. I wasn't putting up for debate by me, I was asking a very simple question which I suspect may not have a simple answer.
Lecturing you about Afghanistan? Where did you get that idea from? Your country and mine are involved in a war, we are linked in this, what one does affects the other. So far I have lost 27 colleagues, people I actually worked with and knew along with 40 injuried so don't you ever tell me I am talking about being press ganged into Afghanistan.
To everyone else I apologise, all I wanted to do was understand the feelings and thoughts of people of a country I admire. I didn't realise asking a simple question about something I know nothing about in an attempt to understand people would be so offensive.
I've had a couple hours running errands to think about this so I'll take a stab at it:
The topic of Americans' pride in their country had me flashing back to a scene in the Mel Gibson film "The Patriot"( I know what some think of both Mel and the film, and in large part I agree, but bear with me) :
In this scene, the son sees an unkempt, hopeless-looking militiaman with a prototypical American flag, dirty, full of holes, unrepaired, touching the ground and the guy doesn't give a ****. When the son picks it up and gives him a disapproving, questioning look, the old soldier just looks up and says: "It's a lost cause".
And that's part of it: from the time America as we know it was first conceptualized, we have *ALWAYS* been a lost cause, yet we've always come through. America was( and to an extent remains) an experimentwhere the balance of power as it exists( or is, on paper, supposed to exist) with the the government "of the people, by the people, for the people" with the power in the *people's* hands had never, within recent memory, if ever, been tried before. Such things as religious freedom, a free press or the right to bear arms were radical ideas at the time.we were untested, tiny, and STILL we grew to where we are now, and did it in, by comparison to other nations' histories, a blink of an eye. We had the revolution, we had a Civil War threaten to tear us apart and whose wounds have STILL never fully healed, we had a Great Depression, two World Wars, Korea, Vietnam, which once again sorely tested us when we were divided and looked to tear us apart, but didn't, and here we are now, at our latest "away match" and only just a couple years ago even *I* was at a point where I was wondering if this was "it"--if this was finally gonna be the situation America went into where it wouldn't come out the other end--on the one hand you had the Late Unpleasantness in the mideast, you had the extremely overpolarized lefties and righties too busy with the "us vs. Them" game to have anything useful to say, and basically too busy fighting amongst ourselves to pay ****in' attention to whatever else might be brewing.
But even THIS is subsiding, however gradually--we have a new general and a new strategy which is at long last giving us the results we should have had years ago,there is increasing talk even within the military of being able in the near future to begin drawing down troops. The writing is on the wall: America will soon be gone from there, and could likely even get to leave from a position of success and not of failure.
The point is here *I* was almost sure this 'd be what broke us, but it hasn't yet.
Even after 9/11, when we were stunned, hurt and didn't know up from down, black from white--we did what I never would have expected us to do --put *everything* aside and piulled together, there were flags all over every available space, people helped each other out for no other reason than it was the right thing to do. It lasted for six, seven good weeks( that was all the New York Times could take).
So on the outside looking in, other nations have laughed at us for what they see as "chest-thumping", excessive patriotism, but remember, it's that same quality we share that has helped us to stand when others might fall, stay together where others might break and run, keep going when any sane person would have given up (very overrated, this business of sanity).
We( or at least *I*) don't look on people of other countries as "less" for no better reason than being born in a different land; I feel truly blessed by my birthright--yes, we can be a proud people at times, but do we not have just cause? And yes, America is in a cycle of turbulence right now, and yes it has problems. But if you can't root for your home team every once in awhile maybe it's time you found another stadium, y'know?
That second question of what Americans think makes a "Good American", well, that's a fair bit tougher now......but what the hell, I've spent this much time in front of my keyboard, I'll take a stab at this too.
Between our cultural diversity and spirit of independence there really idsn't such a thing as a "typical American" we're just too big.
All I can give you is, based on my beliefs and by my attempt to live by them, what *I*, Andy Moynihan and nobody else, considers a "Good American":
*Someone who does not embrace political stances which run counter to the principles of the US Constitution--People who support interfering with freedom of speech, freesom of religion or the right to bear arms, for the three big examples, are people I cannot in good conscience ever refer to as "Good Americans".
*People who like to piss and whine about their "civil liberties" or how important their rights are, but who would never lift a finger or don a uniform to earn them, are not people who I could in good conscience ever refer to as "Good Americans".
*People who, when faced with a choice of what feels good, or what is right, consistently fail to choose what is right, are not people who I could in good conscience ever refer to as "Good Americans."
That's about it for me.
And yes, that I will be attacked about this is probably about as predictable as nightfall. That's OK. I been attacked all my life and I'm still standing.