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Yes, because whether or not someone physically assaults you without provocation is totally your decision.I don't want to be the guy who ends up under a subway train. Or the guy who gets arrested for knocking him off the platform. One really neat hack to not be either of those guys is to not get into situations like that.
Let's keep two things understood. First, he's not going to give an answer that makes sense to the rational-minded. Secondly, who cares what his answer is? You're not going to take life advice from him, are you? I hope not. If you do, then "don't get into street fights" will likely translate to "stand there and let him beat you up."Nope.
The question is kind of: What equipment is the best for mountain climbing?
Your answer is: Do not climb the mountain.
One of my senior SC brothers in NYC told me (before he passed away) that the proudest thing that he did in his life was to save a girl from attacking by a guy in the NYC street. In Chinese, what he did is called "Xia 侠 - chivalry"."don't get into street fights" will likely translate to "stand there and let him beat you up."
This is true for some. I'm a damned good distance runner (which is useless in a self-defense scenario), but a horrible sprinter. Running away is not an option for me, and attempting to do so would put myself in even greater danger.We train MA not only to protect ourselves but also to protect our loved ones. The former, you can run away or avoid. The latter, you can't.
That is self-defense. Street fights have a certain nomenclature, usually predicated by at least two parties being mutually combative.Yes, because whether or not someone physically assaults you without provocation is totally your decision.
Self-defense is one thing. Getting into street fights is another.One of my senior SC brothers in NYC told me (before he passed away) that the proudest thing that he did in his life was to save a girl from attacking by a guy in the NYC street. In Chinese, what he did is called "Xia 侠 - chivalry".
One time in Hawaii, a guy tried to pull a girl into his car. The girl was screaming. I got that guy into a reverse head lock. He lets the girl go. After the girl disappeared, I let him go. Nobody was hurt. Everybody lives happy ever after.
It's easy to say, "don't get into street fights". When someone knocks your wife down, it's wrong to either stand there and watching, or abandon her and run away.
We train MA not only to protect ourselves but also to protect our loved ones. The former, you can run away or avoid. The latter, you can't.
Sometimes, we just have to stand on our ground and help good to fight against evil.
Thanks for making your point clear.If you have to defend yourself, that's a different issue.
That is self-defense. Street fights have a certain nomenclature, usually predicated by at least two parties being mutually combative.
However, to address your statement, at least some of that might be under a person's control. For example, many fights start in bars, strangely enough. Solution; stay out of bars, particularly the kind that have a lot of fights. You can't control everything, but you can limit your risk - that too is self-defense.
Although isn't there evidence that the don't get raped method is better than the learn to fight method?Statistically, About 20% of women in college are raped or sexually assaulted by physical force. If she defends herself, is that self defense? Or is it just her fault because she should have known better?
More to the point of this thread, if that female comes to you and asks you what martial art is best for defending herself from a would-be rapist, would you tell her it’s the one that helps her not get raped in the first place? This is a question I’d very much like for you to answer, because, unless you can explain it to me, your opinions appear to be very irresponsible.
But you would still want to win that fight. Because getting beaten up is crap.Self-defense is one thing. Getting into street fights is another.
"I was assaulted and I defended myself."
Versus...
"Me and this other guy got into a drunken shoving match and it ended up in a street fight."
It's very easy to say don't get into street fights. Street fights are stupid. Avoid them. If you have to defend yourself, that's a different issue.
Many people interested in "martial arts" are interested in self-defense, not mutual combat. So, their less ambiguous question is "What would you do to defend yourself if attacked in the street (e.g., subway)?" As you said, your answer is more unsatisfactory to them. In mutual combat, both parties may lose their right to self-defense and is inadvisable.I get asked this a lot by people who are 'interested' in martial arts, or who want to know 'which art is best' for various things. "Street fights" always comes up in such discussions.
"What would you do in a street fight if XYZ...etc."
I always give the same unsatisfactory answer. Street fighting is stupid. It's pretty much the dumbest thing a person can do voluntarily. I'm not saying they don't happen. I'm not saying that a person might not be called upon to defend themselves in the street (although there are lots of ways to avoid being put in such situations, they can't ALL be avoided).
In your example, had the smaller man not defended himself, he may have been the one to fall onto the tracks and die. The bigger man is seen grabbing the smaller man with his left hand and cocking back his right hand as if to strike.I'm saying that fights are by nature chaotic. Random chance applies as much as skill or art does. I think that's the case here. And what a person might think of as a simple punch up can quickly end up being something the law considers much, much, more serious.
Here is today's example. I do not know who the instigator of this fight was. From the video only, it seems as if the person who survived was the victim; but you don't know what happened before the video started. Perhaps the person who survived had no choice but to the defend themselves with violence - I can't say and I'm not judging them.
What I *am* saying is this. Although neither person expected to die, one of them did die, and rather horribly as well. The other person's life is going to change in a very major way now. He won't be going to work tomorrow. He's going to have to hire an attorney, most likely. He may have to get a bail bondsman to get released from the pokey. Even if in the end it's ruled self-defense, he's got economic and other issues to deal with, not to mention that killing another human being often has a psychological impact on a person.
Man Dies After Falling Onto Train Tracks During Fight In Philadelphia
A man in Philadelphia is dead after being run over by a train ... and he ended up on the tracks because he was fighting another man while they were on the subway platform.www.tmz.com
So yeah. "Which art is best for street fighting?" The one where you don't get in street fights. That one.
Although isn't there evidence that the don't get raped method is better than the learn to fight method?
If the question is "what art is best for self-defense" then the answer is that there is no one-size-fits-all answer. If the question is "what art is best for street fights," then I maintain my reply that street fights are stupid and to be avoided.Many people interested in "martial arts" are interested in self-defense, not mutual combat. So, their less ambiguous question is "What would you do to defend yourself if attacked in the street (e.g., subway)?" As you said, your answer is more unsatisfactory to them. In mutual combat, both parties may lose their right to self-defense and is inadvisable.
It's hard to say what happened before the video began. I used the video as an illustration of the way street fights can go. It is clear that it is possible that the incident in question might have been a pure self-defense situation by the smaller man. We don't know. We do know that the smaller man was arrested - I haven't read whether or not he was charged with a crime. If he is, that might tend to indicate that the situation was more of a mutual combat than a self-defense situation.In your example, had the smaller man not defended himself, he may have been the one to fall onto the tracks and die. The bigger man is seen grabbing the smaller man with his left hand and cocking back his right hand as if to strike.
I can understand why a 3rd grade teacher might respond to "I don't know. Can you?" in response to a student asking "Can I go to the bathroom?" (i.e., the teacher is doing his or her job by teaching and correcting grammar).If the question is "what art is best for self-defense" then the answer is that there is no one-size-fits-all answer. If the question is "what art is best for street fights," then I maintain my reply that street fights are stupid and to be avoided.
I understand that the uninitiated often ask questions in their ignorance that experienced people realize are not the right questions to ask. I can't give an answer to such questions.
That's your answer, may be not others.If the question is "what art is best for self-defense" then the answer is that there is no one-size-fits-all answer.
Many people use both questions to mean self-defense and street fights that "can't ALL be avoided," not mutual combat.If the question is "what art is best for street fights," then I maintain my reply that street fights are stupid and to be avoided.
Others may assess their background, what they are looking to accomplish and suggest choices of swords, guns or martial arts that include drilling realistically using timing, energy and motion.I understand that the uninitiated often ask questions in their ignorance that experienced people realize are not the right questions to ask. I can't give an answer to such questions. "What's the best sword?" "What's the best gun?" "What's the best martial art?" And so on and so forth.
He was charged with involuntary manslaughter. How would that indicate they both agreed to have a fair fight, mutual combat?It's hard to say what happened before the video began. I used the video as an illustration of the way street fights can go. It is clear that it is possible that the incident in question might have been a pure self-defense situation by the smaller man. We don't know. We do know that the smaller man was arrested - I haven't read whether or not he was charged with a crime. If he is, that might tend to indicate that the situation was more of a mutual combat than a self-defense situation.
In your example, what did happen is the smaller guy is alive and the bigger man died. Again if the smaller guy had not defended himself, he may have been the one dead.However, whether it was or was not self-defense, my point was and is that this is what can happen. Some folks, particularly those without experience in violence, have illusions about how so-called 'street fights' go. They are chaotic. Random stuff happens in them. The 'better fighter' doesn't always (I suspect doesn't even usually) win, it's random chance and sometimes there isn't even what you might call a winner. It's not a boxing matching. The fights I've been witness too and sadly had to get involved in (during my younger days as a Marine MP), technique goes out the window in many cases. People slip, slide, fall down, bust their hands on people and things, cut their fists on teeth, rip clothes and hair and flail around until they finally connect with something. In other words, pretty much exactly like the video. The smaller guy was able to connect with a couple of effective punches, but he didn't have a good base, because both of them lost their footing and went *ss over applecart. That's typical in my experience.
I don't believe many people disagree with that. You may be taking what they're asking or saying too literally. They may be talking about street fights that can't be avoided and self-defense.I've posted here in the past about drunks deciding to duke it out in the parking lot over some macho nonsense or another, and one of them slips and falls down, cracks his skull open, dies, and his combative partner finds himself arrested on serious charges.
All of this to say that street fights are stupid and to be avoided. I don't understand why this isn't simply seen as common sense and indisputable, but apparently people disagree with me and think street fights are nifty keen.
Then they would be wrong.That's your answer, may be not others.
Then they would be wrong.Many people use both questions to mean self-defense and street fights that "can't ALL be avoided," not mutual combat.
Others may assess their background, what they are looking to accomplish and suggest choices of swords, guns or martial arts that include drilling realistically using timing, energy and motion.
You made me go look it up. Yes, he was charged with involuntary manslaughter. Turns out he is a homeless person who had an open warrant for strangulation and a lengthy criminal history. Recall that in the video, he was pinned against a column by a larger man who was shouting and apparently threatening him. At one point, the larger man cocked his fist and threatened to hit the smaller man, at which time the smaller man hit the larger man, ending in the larger man's death.He was charged with involuntary manslaughter. How would that indicate they both agreed to have a fair fight, mutual combat?
The smaller guy was apparently the aggressor, which is why he's been charged with involuntary manslaughter.In your example, what did happen is the smaller guy is alive and the bigger man died. Again if the smaller guy had not defended himself, he may have been the one dead.
I don't believe many people disagree with that. You may be taking what they're asking or saying too literally. They may be talking about street fights that can't be avoided and self-defense.
I literally cannot answer the commonly-asked question "Which martial art is the best for a street fight." If the why behind that escapes you, or if you think there *is* a best martial art for a street fight, I guess I have nothing else to discuss.I can understand why a 3rd grade teacher might respond to "I don't know. Can you?" in response to a student asking "Can I go to the bathroom?" (i.e., the teacher is doing his or her job by teaching and correcting grammar).
But if we're doing similar things outside of that environment, then that's just bad social interaction. And it will likely come off to some (maybe even most), as though you're trying to act superior.
If I genuinely misunderstood someone, that's one thing. But if I understand fully well what they're asking or saying, there's no need for the pedantics.