weaton's law dude, you RELLY need to look it up
in self defense, (something you wouldnt know about being a lifetime WTF guy) you use your skills to protect yourself and others, in tournament competition, everyone is assumed to be equal.
in a tournament, if he faces you, he is asking for permission to beat on you. if you are better than him, too bad for him, thats the risk he took signing up. And you are damned right i teach my students to give EVERYONE they square off with the best they have
i am doubting you have ever competed with the BS you are slinging about "fair" this and "bullies" that
thats loser talk