Steve
Mostly Harmless
LOL. You said it, not me. But to answer your question (if you're serious), in wrestling, kids get to wrestle. In golf, kids get to play golf. Clarinet players play the clarinet. Chess club members play chess. But, unique to Martial Arts, kids who are in martial arts class tend to get promoted for, at best, kicking pads and competing in TKD tourneys... or at worst, NOT doing these things. How many children's martial arts classes teach any practical self defense skills?I agree that we're missing each other here. I don't quite see how that would be so, unless the instructor were utterly incompetent.
So, if a child has any confidence in his or her ability to defend himself, they are dangerously deluded.
I think that values are a product of actions not words. A good coach/teacher will be a good role model. I do agree, though, that any person interacting with kids in a position of authority should strive to set a good example and be a positive role model. This includes violin teachers. Where kids are involved, we aren't training killers. We're training productive citizens.Bill, its very important that martial arts training consist of both adequate skills training and values training. Inadequate or outright fake skills training makes the place nothing but a charm school; teaching the physical skills without the values poses the very real risk of turning out better grade bullies and thugs.
If they're teaching kids, then yes. By stepping into the role of coach, they WILL be influencing the kids they teach, for good or ill.Do marksmanship instructors teach values? Do we expect them to?
It's very different for adults than for kids, but I'd argue that you can ALWAYS tell who had strong, positive role models as coaches and teachers and who didn't.I agree that such values are accepted and desired in professional and amateur athletes. However, I am not familiar with any coach of a pro or college team that lost consistently but was kept around because they taught good values. None that were fired for having a winning season but not passing on effective life lessons.
Do we fire them? Of course we do. Teachers and coaches who step over ethical boundaries get fired all the time. Outside of that, we do expect our coaches to set a good example, work hard and impart qualities like sportsmanship. At least, that's how it is around here, and how it was where I grew up.We do demand sportsmanship in our athletes, and I agree that they must be learning it somewhere; probably from coaches and teachers and leaders and parents and clergy and so on. I'm noting however that we do not fire coaches who don't teach morals along with how to throw a change-up pitch.
EXACTLY!I think no activity inherently by itself teaches morals and values; it is the interactions among human beings that provide this learning.
Morals and values are best learned by children through observation, and when old enough feedback. However drilling "morals" and the preachy version of the stereotypical McDojo actually, IMO, isn't the best way to teach what we hope to...
I think that if the training comes first (in whatever activity), the students have the chance to pick up on the life lessons.
Except that a McDojo actually teaches negative values. Like, getting something for nothing. Being promoted for tenure not effort. That no matter how little you try you will ALWAYS succeed. Or in really bad examples, that they might have a chance of defending themselves because they're black belts.If that is the case, then the McDojo is no more guilty of failing to teach morals, values, or ethics than any non-McDojo, right?
They don't, but I don't think you understand the argument of why.I mean, this is one of the main arguments I've read in this thread against the McDojo - they don't teach ethics.
Where kids are concerned, they're always learning something.Yet if your statement is true, everything teaches ethics.
Again, Bill, I see what you're saying, but it's clear that I'm just not making my points. But once again, reading through the thread, I'm not sure how I can say it differently.