Kacey said:The age difference bothers me as much, if not more than, the actual ruling on age.
Hmm... this not so much with me... as her actual age...
I wouldnt think much of the age difference between a 60 year old marrying a 30 year old... in fact I have dated as much as 11 years below my own age...
But taking her actual age into consideration... that should be more disturbing than the actual DIFFERENCE in their ages.