Chobaja said:
Furthermore, since the child is already having pre-marital sex it's obvious they haven't been guided properly, haven't been taught how to make appropriate life choices, and are largely unsupervised. So I question the integrity and parenting skills of the parents of a pregnant daughter.
Let's turn it around.. Under what circumstances do you think a child should be forced to give birth? What really makes you think children under 18 shouldn't be intelligent enough to choose to abort? And yes, if they choose to abort that would be intelligence. To decide to abort is a very lucid decision.
Girls still in the early stages of puberty have very difficult and dangerous labors. A parent that would have their daughter endure such risk is deranged.
Let's not forget that congress agrees with me.
I don't think anyone can give 1 good answer as to why a child should be forced to give birth. And if you think "you make your bed you sleep in it" then you are who I believe they need to be protected from.
a. If your child has pre-marital sex, it does not necessarily make you a bad parent. Unless, however, you consider 50-70% of the parents of high school seniors to be "bad" parents, cause that is what percentage of those children are or have been sexually active. Who are we to judge unless you know those families personally .
b. "my boyfriend will break up with me if I don't have an abortion"
" I don't want to get fat."
" I'll get kicked off the cheerleading squad."
....wonderful, lucid, intelligent reasons that a 15 y.o. might have for getting an abortion.
Suppose she says "I want an abortion because I was raped by the man next door, but I don't want to tell anyone cause he said if I did, he would kill me. " Is your answer, go ahead, give her the abortion, but don't tell her parents? Let her continue to live next door to the man who assaulted her? I know this may seem far-fetched, but these are real scenarios.
c. Deranged? You have got to be kidding. So If a 13 y.o. decides NOT to have an abortion, her parents ought to make her, otherwise they would be deranged? By the way, I work in healthcare, have personally taken care of pregnant 12 - 14 y.o.s, and they have had normal pregnancies and deliveries.
d. No one is saying a child should be forced to give birth. We are saying that parents ought to have a say so in the decision to have an abortion, cause that is what good parents should do, be responsible the well being of their children.
Peace,
Melissa