I think we all agree that actually fighting is pretty the much
the worst methodology for Self Defense, no?
I think we all agree that defense against violence should be:
- 1. Avoid the situation through planning. If that fails...
- 2. Try to calm the situation down and defuse it. If that fails...
- 3. Try to get away from the situation. If that's not possible...
- 4. Ok, then you get to punch the guy in the face.
I think we all agree that giving lip service to the above concepts for thirty seconds, and then proceeding to teach people how to fight is not a comprehensive Self Defense syllabus.
But really, we seem to have that conversation in pretty much every thread in the general area. Someone talks about specifics of martial art, and someone else says, "ah, but
true self defense is not about fighting." Then we all agree, but continue to try to discuss specific tactics in the area of Self Defense demonstrated in Martial Arts, but every specific is countered with some version on, "ah, but
true self defense is not about fighting." And we all agree, so then we once again try to discuss specifics of combat, but someone counters with, "ah, but
true self defense..."
This thread intended to discuss, not all of self defense, not locks on doors, not keeping your money out of sight, not deescalation, not route planning, not which taxi services are safer, not avoidance through appropriate body language, not which bus stops are more public, not any of that. It fairly obviously began as a discussion of the actual combat found in various traditional and sport martial arts, and how it corresponds with the actual combat found in violence.
This is still an immensely broad topic, as Kyokushin, Full contact Shotokan, MMA, BJJ, Judo, WTF TKD, and geared-up point/tag sparring for six year olds are all sport martial arts. However, it's a slightly more approachable topic than, "what constitutes all of what we may consider to be self-defense?"
The two examples given were:
Sports aim their punches at general areas (head/body) as anywhere in these areas score points.
This is true, but it's really only true in striking sports where you win on tags rather than effectiveness. So, to my limited experience, that would be light-contact point sparring. I'm not familiar with MMA scoring, but in my experience, they don't train to hit the pectoral muscles and call it as good as the short ribs. if the sport has contact, this point is generally null and void...
There are other issue too, sport martial arts will teach you to stand directly in front of the opponent, which for civilian violence is absolute the worst possible place you can be, as if you are stood directly in front of them, they can hit you just as easily as you can hit them.
Again, we all agree that no striking sport teaches you to stand center to center and trade. That's just dumb. Yeah, you spend time in front of the other guy, but guess what? That's because they are attempting to get off line just as much as you. I don't think even the average tag-fighter
intends to stand and trade the whole match.
So. Here is a novel concept. You can win sports fights by stopping the other guy. Happens all the time. This is done by effective vital point striking. So vital point striking wins competitions.
So if you are concerned about these issues in self defense then they are a main component of sports fighting.
Definitely, I think we all agree. Most sport fighting relies on you being able to well, fight effectively.
However, there are aspects of combat in every sport, just like every traditional martial art, that are to various degrees removed from combat in actual violence. I think most of these stem from fighting people who fight like you.
Perhaps the two most obvious examples:
WTF TKD players develop skillsets based on the rules of the game that leave them extremely prone to falling at no penalty, getting punched in the head, basically any hand techniques, etc. I think we all agree there.
Boxing, when I briefly went to a local gym, really unnerved me because of how defenseless I was to takedowns, grappling and kicks, as well as how differently the techniques functioned without the enormous gloves. There may be some contention on this one...
Or take Win Chun guys, some of who practice mainly from a starting position of intial arm contact, expecting lots of chi sau. they get very good at fighting other Win Chun guys, who are doing Win Chun stuff.
If you train martially oriented Tai Chi, you may become very good at twisting the subtleties of weight of your equally tricksy opponent, tying each other up in knots and gently dropping one another to the ground. You may become fantastic at attacking and defending fro other tai Chi Chuan practitioners, but you may find you have difficulty against, counter-intuitively, some who not only has crappy control and balance, but also doesn't even make the attempt, but just swings, wildly.
If you only train stand up, you might get a surprise when you get pinned. If you only train ground you might get a surprise when you meet someone who's got good takedown defense and a nasty striking game. If you train ground without strikes, someone who trains a heavily grapple-strike mix on the ground might give you a run for your money.
These things are obviously problems in all martial arts, not just those which are sport-oriented, but I think it is safe to say that the
majority of schools that actively attempt to train against fighting tactics from outside their style are non-sport. If you're training to box, you don't waste time on kick defense or ground work. If you're training for competition in a sport that forbids takedowns and leg attacks, you probably don't spend time training to avoid those things.
The training paradigm of always training against your own tactics and techniques means that you are learning to defend against, primarily, people who fight like you, and you're learning to attack in ways which are effective against people like you.
I think it is, honestly
more common to find that schools and gyms that actively say, "well we don't really train X, but we need to learn to defend against it," are non-sport schools. Again, if your focus is Sport Taekwondo, why would you train takedown defense and groundwork? But, if your focus is non-sport Taekwondo, then you probably
are.
We can argue about whether you probably have a need to learn to fight in self defense or not, and whether training empty hand is the best method for self defense fighting, that's for sure.
And yes, you can certainly verbally defend your bullocks technique by pulling the "too lethal" or "this is Self Defense" card, but honestly that's not something I've seen much of. Most people I know are professing to teach Karate, or TKD, or BJJ, or Aikido, not "Self Defense." The sign out front says "Kung Fu," not "Defend Yourself."
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However, the question of sport paradigms versus non-sport paradigms versus actual violence is a completely different question from "Is learning to fight a valid self-protection method."
Because it's not a valid method. It may be
part of a valid method, but it's like moving to a flood plain, building your house on silt, forgoing all sand bags, leaving all your valuables on the first floor, and then saying, "hey, it's ok, I've got an inflatable raft." Great, but you could have just built a post home. Or, you know,
not moved to a flood plain. The raft may still be a good idea, but it's pretty last ditch, no matter how good it is. It might make more sense to keep your raft for summer days on the lake.
But, here's the thing. This
is afterall, a forum about inflatable rafts, whether as flood insurance or as pleasure craft, so I think we can justify ourselves if we sometimes talk about the raft itself, instead of how we don't really need a raft.