ShotoNoob
Master Black Belt
Your analysis is correct about the countering the 2nd exchange. That's pretty much what I did. I would have create another thread in order to show that. I don't want to take this topic off too far off course. This is the end result of the technique I was working on that day. It looks like it's just a hook, but it's not. The technique is what got me there. Also take notice of the placement of the hook. This is why I don't blast people in sparring. I've been hit with the same technique before and I'm not ashamed to admit that I was happy that my partner didn't put power into the punch. I kept using the same technique on everyone because I wanted them to catch on and to be able to defend against it. This means that I have to be able to alter a technique slightly in order to keep it effective. It's one of those techniques that you can block one way and feel safe, only to have it hit you in the same place by slightly altering it.
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I see how you are using the sparring to define & refine technique. I do that before I even think of sparring... Your approach is the much more common approach, though I don't endorse or follow such. You do clearly show how active sparring can be used to develop & up one's skills. The Jai Harman vids don't show the intelligence of your training approach @ all.... pretty much degenerating & deteriorating into your post & comment below, TMA wise that is...
\Even though I let my mental guard down, I can't deny that she took advantage of that and did a good job at it. I have to be humble enough to acknowledge that as well as accept that I failed myself when I let my guard down mentally. It was a good learning experience so in that light the sparring match was a good one. I got about a year's worth of improvement with that technique by sparring with them.
As a strict traditionalist, the mental dimension is dominant &overriding.... This is one of the lessons in my much earlier posts on other MT threads regarding the opening step(s) of traditional karate kata.... which kung fu forms have a similar but more involved openings, TMU. No one here has grasped that lesson.... Hence, the mental focus is missing and the traditional forms movements become hollow & false in their effect & intent... Same goes for basics & fighting drills such as 1-steps.... Mental discipline in TMA is paramount and this maxim can never be violated.... The reality of TMA is that your mind had better be working in a disciplined manner.... there's your TMA reality test...
\The difference between Jai Harman and the woman I sparred with, is that his attitude is all about winning even when his skill level is higher than his opponent. It shows in the way he spars and the type of videos he posts. Both of our schools were there to improve our skills. It never ever become about winning. So in that light I can appreciate someone using a technique on me and being successful with it.
Always good to have goal posts and reality testing. I believe in the traditional preparation as paramount: kihon, kata, kumite centered on 1-steps and the like.... I appreciate those higher skilled than myself, which I divide into 2 camps: better natural abilities (plenty) and better TMA (far fewer). On that kung fu instructor I spoke about, I gave myself 3 years (at that time) until I could match him.... on a probable basis.... still wide open question.... And that would assume a higher than average intensity of training.... I would definitely be pushed to my limits. Remember... he was a solid forms (not sparring) proponent.... In TMA, it tends to be the really solid kung fu stylists in my area that I can see I can't handle.... most karate guys I can beat or match....
\Jai Harman only cares about winning so me sparring against him would be more aggressive and I wouldn't care if he learned anything from the experience or not. This is attitude is good for competition or actual fighting but not good for skill development.
Yeah, the woman student the head instructor asked me to help prepare for her belt test, turned the match into a tournament.... karate skill development (& and my unguarded attitude) were thrown out the window. YOu hit the nail on the head, TMA wise or even good sport training wise... too much stress and the mind cannot learn effectively.... let alone integrate with the body functioning....
\I wouldn't have any problem with telling the guys I spar with how I was exploiting their openings, but I wouldn't do the same with Jai. He doesn't have that type of respect from me, based on what I see in the video. It's his right to be that way so I'm not saying he's wrong for being that way. It's just that it's not a good learning method for me.
Well, I don;t train with guys like Jai... 'cause it just degenerates into a contest..... then I am forced to literally destroy the opponent rather than let them use me as a punching bag...plus always risk of injury when things escalate. In fact, I try to avoid free sparring most of the time.... reserving it for belt tests alone is my preference.... or occasional reality testing.... Guys like Jai do make an excellent reality test for mentally disciplined TMA, when that is appropriate... Other than that, I could care less about getting in the ring and showing I can slug it out or not.... I walk away from the Jai-like guys unless it's formal testing.... then I take 'em out.... pissing some off to no end....
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What I'd like to see is that kung fu instructor I mentioned earlier who challenged me (inappropriately) take out some of his frustration and need to demonstrate, do so against a Jai Harman.... I have no doubt that kung fu instructor could flatten many an opponent having Jai Harman skill sets.... Put these two together who feel the need to prove to others they can fight. I know that kung fu instructor is for real, I don't need to test it.... what i do need to do is train it.... that's why I was in his kung fu class...
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