I don't doubt those numbers. Very sad indeed. Please don't read my post as justifying mass deaths as others have tried to do:
"We have heard that a half million children have died," said "60 Minutes" reporter Lesley Stahl, speaking of US sanctions against Iraq. "I mean, that's more children than died in Hiroshima. And -- and you know, is the price worth it?" Her guest, Madeleine Albright, responded: "I think this is a very hard choice, but the price -- we think the price is worth it."
I sure wouldn't call any death and destruction as 'kinder and gentler' than another. I was just pointing out that there are more 'efficient' ways of winning a war. For example, the US resorted to a very efficient way against Japan in WWII. Some say it may have saved thousands of American lives and perhaps it even saved money in that war and I'm sure it knocked out power too. While it may meet most of the criteria you have put forth, I'm very glad that no president has used it.