Wouldn't it be great if we got to choreograph the few, if any, actual fights in real life? My attacker - she would be a six foot tall, dark haired beauty with a short skirt trying to kick me in the head repeatedly. And hopefull, not too fast.
We can't even dictate the circumstances of a fight, other than to eliminate some. I'm not going to get attacked at 2 a.m going to my car. The only way I'm outside at 2 a.m is if my house is on fire. Socially, I'm never in a place where people I don't know are drinking. I don't have to be in high crime areas anymore, so I'm not. Yeah, yeah, I know a fight can happen anywhere, but many of them are eliminated by what I do or don't do.
As for running away from a fight - I can skedaddle out of someplace if I see or sense trouble brewing. But to actually run away fast if trouble was coming at me, that ain't happening. I'd get taken down in thirty yards and have to fight anyway, so running is no longer an option for me. I wish it were.
That leaves the fight itself. If I could choreograph it, we'd be standing up, in close, striking. That's my first home, it's where I love to be. The last damn place I want to ever go is to the ground. But maybe I fall down, get knocked down, get taken down or slip. Most folks are bigger and stronger than me, I usually end up on the bottom. If so, I want to get my guard. My closed guard. You're finished there, sucker, I ain't letting you get away, it's where I attack from, has been for twenty years. The only hope a person has is to get their *** out of my guard, if he's there for a full thirty seconds he's going to get knocked out or beaten senseless. The guard is the only place I'm really confident throwing strikes from, other than standing. It is such a fine place to strike from. You have to have a strong active core to do it, and you have to have trained the position - but I have a strong active core and have trained the **** out of that position.