Xue Sheng
All weight is underside
Well, that's the conundrum in the differences between gender. Women think we're being obvious, and men don't see it at all.
It may also be cultural as well. My wife is from China and does not always hint or use subtlety she goes STRAIGHT for the complaining
Actually that is only partially true, she does not hint or use subtlety she just tells me what she wants for her birthday or what she wants done around the house and I am good with this, I take direction well.