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There's one charcteristic that transcends all others and we've avoided mentioning it so far - confidence.
That indefinable air of being comfortable with yourself overrides nearly everything else.
Thardey I cannot walk in your shoes so I can't know exactly what it is like to feel as you do but, in that previously referred too 'teen-time I had such bad acne that even today I still look across my back and shoulders as if I've been hit by an Alien acid burst. I have large purple scars down my internally destroyed right arm and a big welt in the middle of my chest. I refuse to allow these to define me, any more than I allowed what used to be my high intelligence to define me.
As humans we all react first to appearance but, given some time, those other elements that make us "Us" will shine through - oddly enough, the hardest 'handicap' to overcome for this step is physical beauty. The best example that occurs to me of this is Marilyn Monroe - driven to suicide because she could not escape the trap of her sexual appeal.
I guess most of it depends on what we let ourselves be defined by, huh?
"People will treat you the way you teach them to treat you." (Unknown Author.)