Lately I see a lot of people combining them, they don't give and they expect return. Pretty much every Karen video on YouTube is evidence of this.There are 2 different ways to live.
1. You give and you expect return.
2. You don't give and you don't expect return.
Which way is better?
If you prefer
- 1, when you don't receive return, you will feel bad.
- 2, since you don't expect return, nothing can bother you.
I know I don't belong to the mainstream. When I post, I don't expect people to agree with me. I'm happy if there is just 1 person who agree with me. If I always expect people to agree with me, when there is just 1 person who disagree with me, I may feel bad.
I do believe "don't care" is the best way to deal with our life.