punisher73
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I think your son did a fine job of defending himself and protecting the other kid from further injury.
You need to stand up for your kid's rights and the rights of the other kids to be able to attend there and be safe. Yes, accidents happen in a sporting event, but they shouldn't have to worry about being injured from another kid who has violent outbursts.
You had mentioned that it has happened before, I would talk with those parents and get statements from them and get them to commit to talking with the board as well to show that this is an ongoing problem with this other kid.
That leads me to wonder, your son was threatened to be removed from the team if it happened again....why hasn't Jerry been removed already since it keeps happening? This is the part that gets me, the way the laws are, if Jerry is labeled as learning or emotionally disabled and they get someone to show that his behavior was a "manifestation" of it, then he pretty much gets a free pass. I see it all the time here, a kid will assault a teacher and instead of expulsion he/she is allowed to remain in the school because it was just a "manifestation" and they couldn't help it.
As far as Jerry's mother, shame on her and her husband. It is tragic to have a child with mental/emotional problems but instead of covering them up, bring them up and educate people what it means and how to help Jerry out so that everyone can have fun and understand his behavior. All Jerry's parents are doing is setting the stage for their son to be ostracized as he gets older.
You need to stand up for your kid's rights and the rights of the other kids to be able to attend there and be safe. Yes, accidents happen in a sporting event, but they shouldn't have to worry about being injured from another kid who has violent outbursts.
You had mentioned that it has happened before, I would talk with those parents and get statements from them and get them to commit to talking with the board as well to show that this is an ongoing problem with this other kid.
That leads me to wonder, your son was threatened to be removed from the team if it happened again....why hasn't Jerry been removed already since it keeps happening? This is the part that gets me, the way the laws are, if Jerry is labeled as learning or emotionally disabled and they get someone to show that his behavior was a "manifestation" of it, then he pretty much gets a free pass. I see it all the time here, a kid will assault a teacher and instead of expulsion he/she is allowed to remain in the school because it was just a "manifestation" and they couldn't help it.
As far as Jerry's mother, shame on her and her husband. It is tragic to have a child with mental/emotional problems but instead of covering them up, bring them up and educate people what it means and how to help Jerry out so that everyone can have fun and understand his behavior. All Jerry's parents are doing is setting the stage for their son to be ostracized as he gets older.