Rich Parsons said:I agree.
Last weekend out with some younger friends, and lots of people back in town for the holidays, and people drinking. A couple of guys kepts bumping and pushing when there was plenty of room, as it was tables and chairs not that crowded.
I moved. I moved again. I asked them if I had upset them, or something. They said no.
Later, I just smiled at them and said, "Careful or one of these times you are going to swing your drink around and hit me in the head and knock me out and I might accidentially roll over on the ground and break your ankle."
One just walked away the other just started to laugh and said that is funny "Dude" and I do not want to break anything let alone an ankle.
Not the best way, but to most young males, who hear that I agree they will knock me out, they leave or join.
Rich thats pretty good . One of the things that I'v learned over the years is you have to use a certain tact when avoiding confrontations. You have to be able to read the person & let them know in a nice way that you don't want any trouble but, somtimes you can't be overly nice if you know what I mean, if they think your a pussover or scared your in trouble, but if you can be forcefull without embarrassing them in front of their friends they usually get the point. Speaking for myself, I will always walk away from any confrontation, especially multiple attacks. Why act stupid? Besides somone could accidently role over on the ground & break my ankle .