I wanted to revisit this. After our tournament this weekend and watching the black belts, I think this is absolutely the crux of the difference. In my karate school, 1st Dan meant you were high enough to teach and open a school (which I did briefly). It seems that my old style 1st Dan is roughly equivalent to KKW 3rd Dan. Seeing it that way makes everything fall into place better. Rather than comparing kyu - gup and Dan to Dan, when I adjust for this difference in what the belts mean everything fits. I guess I never realized that 1st Dan had different meanings in different styles.
Iāve also come to grips with the idea that this school is focused solely on taekwondo, which is primarily kicking. If I want other aspects of Martial Arts Iāll have to cross train.
I want to thank you and everyone who commented before. I feel 100% better about things and excited about studying taekwondo again.
Yeah that's a great observation Michele. A 1st Dan definitely means something and represents something different in different styles. Is this necessarily a bad thing? Absolutely not. Of course they all represent some degree of mastery or skill of the specific art, but to what degree seems different from style to style.
For example, in my previous style of Kyokushin karate, I witnessed multiple black belt gradings. They were.... hmm I can't even find the right word. Brutal is one word, epic, insane, probably the most challenging thing I've ever seen people do in person. They were so very intense. Not only technically did the candidates have to be at a great level, but in terms of endurance/stamina, and fighting spirit it's truly out of this world. Not only after hours and hours of almost nonstop basics, self-defense, combination patterns, kata, calisthenics and exercises, but 40 rounds of intense full contact kumite after that. Because that's what the style emphasises and what its all about, of course getting to a pinnacle of that is going to be difficult!
Reaching a 1st Dan in Kyokushin is massive, and compared to some other black belt gradings, they are miles different.
And it's important (and what I'm coming to realise more) to see that this isn't a bad thing, as every style is just different, and black belt represents a different level RELATIVE to the specific art. So to me this brings a sort of comfort, as it's specific to the art, and too many dismiss other gradings as being too easy, but it's moreso what it means to the art itself.
If you think about it, don't we learn a lot of stuff in life that way? Messing up over and over again until we work out how to get it right?
I think that there's a balance to be found - give some correction, but not too much. If a student is constantly getting corrected, they may feel like "I can't get this right, I'm never going to get this". So a little bit of correction here and there, praise what they do they correctly to reinforce that & keep them motivated ("good job pivoting your foot!", "good kihap!", etc), and let them keep trying.
Very well said! I always try to praise as well, but I'll remember that with our kid's classes to not constantly correct the same things too much