1. Live video- weekly, In person- that depends on where the student is located. If you can do once or twice a month great. If you live in the UK and can only make workshops and bootcamp, great.
in my opinion, this is not enough. Yak Sau posted a little while back about his classmate who was getting constant correction for the same error before he was finally able to correct it. That repeated correction doesn't happen enough if you meet once or twice a month, certainly not if it's just workshops and bootcamps once or twice a year. I just do not believe it is enough to get it right, to get the corrections you need, as often as needed.
2. Mine has 10 yrs experience over me. Studied in a traditional kwoon of course. He sees no difference in my skill vs another whom visits a traditional kwoon twice or once a week. I've made the same mistakes as others have made in a brick building. In some cases, I have actually performed better than students he has trained with in the past. To each it's own I guess. Learning at own pace in that you can revisit lessons definitely has its benefits.
If your training partner has ten solid years of good training, then he could be at a sifu level. In this case, you are not really learning from the Sifu thru the distance program. You are learning from your training partner. He is your real sifu, tho the head Sifu may be the one with oversite. This is a common kind of arrangement in the martial arts, where branch schools will get oversight from some head master or something. Using the internet or video conferencing for the oversite is a newer approach, and I don't agree with it for that either, but it's not the same as learning thru a distance program.
In your case you may need to acknowledge that your reality is more traditional and you are not really learning from the head sifu thru a distance program. The distance portion is merely supplemental, perhaps gives your training partner some guidance on curriculum structure for you, but he is really the one teaching you and it is face-to-face and in person.
Take that one element out of the mix, your training partner. Replace him with someone of your level and if the two of you started from ground zero together I believe you could not progress in this way.
hough, even if he didn't have the training he has over me, two students with equal beginner ability can still progress. Yes, they will make mistakes and yes that need to be corrected. That's what learning is, you make mistakes and you learn from it.
I think it would be a game-changer, if you and your training partner were both beginners together and tried to work thru a distance program. It would be really difficult to the point of unrealistic, to try and get the corrections often enough for them to sink in. I don't believe it's possible.
Also keep in mind, the physical techniques and curriculum of the system are not really what the training is about. Those are just tools that are used to help you develop a set of skills. Getting the physical movement "perfect" so that it looks just like sifu, isn't the point and isn't a measure of your skill. It's what you can do with the skills that matter. And that takes a level of insight that isn't built without exposure. Being in the kwoon with a teacher and with other classmates is where those more nebulous lessons sink in. If you don't have much of that kind of exposure, then you never develop real skill, even tho you may learn the complete system, the full curriculum.