Okay, this is another place where we seem to be running into defintion issues. When I speak of "fighting", I'm talking about what I think drop bear would refer to as physically imposing your will on someone. If you're including this in your definition, I agree with what you're saying here. I think we can all agree that verbal Judo (take that, Jitser!!) is useful for self-protection and a lot of other areas of life.If youāre talking about verbal skills to diffuse conflict, that is part of someoneās fighting ability as well. Imposing your will onto someone isnāt always physical, oftentimes it is mental. In Bjj itās considered an aspect of āinvisible Jiujitsuā, along the same lines of temperament, awareness, and confidence. Obviously other MAs call it something else entirely, but it is still an aspect of your ability to resolve conflict. It is training to make you a more calm and collective fighter/warrior/whatever.
I'll also clarify that when I'm helping folks with their communication skills, it's not necessarily about diffusing conflict (though that sometimes comes up). It's more about general communication, like how to ask a good question. Why? Because I strongly suspect they'll get more life benefit from improving in that area than any ability to fight, as most folks will never actually need the physical fighting skills.