This thread touches on a few things I've been putting off asking...
1. It seems to me alot of broken people end up studing Kung Fu. Do people from other disciplines find the same, for their study?
2. Folks that are religious- how does their training line up with their beliefs?
3. If the theories are there, but not explicitly taught; are the lessons taught anyway?
Ex. The generalization is that Arts from Shaolin have underlying Buddist teachings. Strikes may maim, but not kill; there is respect for all living things. So, belonging to Shaolin you get the physical side- the movements, and attend Temple for the spiritual side. But, let's say you only do the physical side, as most of us do. Over time, do you think someone would unknowingly adapt or present the spiritual side?
I think so. I just don't know if it is simply a symptom of getting older. The challenges I face on a daily basis has changed, from when I was 20.
Thoughts?
Some great and thought-provoking questions wanderingstudent
1) It's possible, alot of people do start martial arts coming from a challenging background, and wanting to find some peace, focus, and a way to move through whatever they're going through. Not to mention a great community and social atmosphere to be a part of.
2) I'm not religious as such but am spiritually oriented and devoted to that, and I've found that I've learned so much through MA. The way I see it, spirituality isn't separate from your day-to-day life, including MA, but it encompasses and recontextualises everything you do, and you can find greater meaning within everything having that as a place you come from.
When I trained in Kyokushin, when training got reeeally intense in the dojo and to that next level, it showed me things I never realised about myself. All sorts of beliefs, resistances and limitations came to the fore, and it seemed that only through putting yourself through the 'fire' will some of that stuff come up to be processed and let go of. You leave feeling so much lighter having faced that, and much less burdened than when you walked in the dojo.
And even in doing basics you can enter a real zone of total focus on what you're doing, and at times everything falls away, you see the body doing techniques automatically and totally on it's own and you're just the witness of it, and a greater dimension opens within yourself.
I think martial arts brings you to such a vulnerable place, to me it's not about learning to be 'strong', but learning to let yourself be vulnerable enough to let go of your defenses and resistances, and see where your true strength lies.
So my spirituality informs my practice, rather than the style, and there can only really be any 'conflict' if you're holding onto beliefs and comparing with the mind. If you know your intention and where you're coming from, it's only truly not serving you if the style/dojo/instructor clearly is coming from non-integrity and negative energy, and if it's not in line with your overall way of being and spiritual orientation. And you can usually intuit this and simply go elsewhere
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3) Yeah that's the thing, it's rare to find a martial art that will cater solely to the spiritual or have that as a main focus, but I reckon the best ones will already have spirituality taught throughout it, but nonverbally. Practicing drills which emphasise experiential qualities rather than belief systems.
But that being said I haven't been everywhere so I don't know! But that's what I'm currently doing, looking around and visiting dojos and seeing what I intuit as 'right for me' or 'absolutely nooooo'. As I'm realizing I can't really cherrypick and be too specific with what I'm looking for, and I'm going by feel rather than what a style 'should' be about.
Thanks for bringing those questions up, that's cleared a few things up for me just writing this