Yes; It all comes down to, "Do you feel these Kids are worth saving and do you feel that a discipline will help?"
Sean
Sean
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I wish I could post the page (of a 200 pg book) taken off a POS "gangsta" in Calf my Narc officers..It is a system of hand-to-hand combat that they learn to use against LEO..The drawings all show the cop as fat , overweight and wearing swastikas..While the perps all look like stunt doubles Westley Snipes or Denzel Washington..
That says a lot how they *hope* things would be like...
Andrew - this is actually a minor reason people join gangs. Even in the worst neighborhoods, there are lots of opportunities to connect with other people and form positive relationships. The schools and churches have great programs that can offer kids an alternative to gang life. An alternative that can keep them safe and give them the familial relationships they may be lacking.
The unfortunate reality is that kids are joining gangs because its cool to be a criminal. These organizations make no attempt to hide what they are really about. They sell drugs, they rob steal and murder, and they fight with other gangs over who gets the rights to do that in a particular part of town. Kids who join gangs think that stuff is cool! And you do not want kids like that in your dojang.
Theres no reason to be sympathetic to the criminal mindset here. The kids who join gangs think its cool to be a thug, they want to ride that power trip, and they don't care who gets hurt. We need to stop making excuses for these kids and hold them accountable for their actions.
They chose to be bad, so they don't get to walk through the door of my dojang. Plain and simple.
Good point, tshadowchaser. For me, also, it's a very personal, case by case proposition. And the ones who don't do it my way (including showing some humility and humanity) don't last long.When I lived in Southern Calif. I had a couple of known gang members ask me to teach them.
I taught both of them. Both stayed away from the gangs, but one did get killed in a drive by because of where he lived.
It depends on why they want to learn and if i know them personally.
There have been some who asked that I said NO to
Also a good point, Brother, and something I realize I took for granted in earlier posts. I've gotten to know all the guys I teach before we ever started, and have their PO's cards in my file. Never had to call one for one of the Kempo boys, tho.Brother John said:I'd ONLY be their instructor IF they demonstrate an effort to leave gang life/mentality!! I'd have to be given written permission to visit their PO...and things like that.
Brother John said:BUT I'D DO IT IN A HEART BEAT!!!!!!!!!!!!! Those are my brothers! I have a real heart for those boys/young men. That's WHY I do what I do! If me and my Kenpo school could play a role in helping them change their mentality and their life...
MJS said:But do kids need to join a gang to steal a car, mug someone or shoplift? Values, morals, etc., start at the home. If someone isn't feeling loved, etc., the kid is going to look elsewhere for that 'family' feel, and a gang is where they'll find it. Sure there are other options, but someone has to show them the way.
Obviously no one on this board ever wants to see any harm come to LE, CO, teachers of adjudicated kids, or the general public. And I personally would never take on a MA student that I doubted would do the right thing/change for the better along the MA path (or if I did later regret it, would turn up the heat--if they're for real, they'll take it; if not, they're gone). There's a big difference in California between adult and juvenile gangs, and gang members. Drac, I'm wondering if the book you're talking about was more for use by adult gangsters, who are basically career criminals? For one thing, the juvenile bangers I've known (and the number is legion :uhyeah wouldn't have near the discipline to learn anything that complicated. Just bring this up because I and probably some others are only speaking of juveniles. Adult gangsters I would never touch.Drac said:I wish I could post the page (of a 200 pg book) taken off a POS "gangsta" in Calf my Narc officers..It is a system of hand-to-hand combat that they learn to use against LEO..The drawings all show the cop as fat , overweight and wearing swastikas..While the perps all look like stunt doubles Westley Snipes or Denzel Washington..
Then -- consider that, while there is a national and international aspect, gangs remain a highly localized phenomena, as well. The "rules" for West Coast bangers aren't the same as Chicago gangs, which are different from East Coast gangs. Even on the East Coast, we see different things in Maryland and Virginia, and New York, and so till you're bored naming states. It's even different on a local level; drive 20 miles, and the rules can change. What we see in Northern VA is not the same as what cops in Virginia Beach see.
There are a MULTITUDE of real reasons why they join!! and it IS extremely complicated!!Why kids or adults join gangs is a very complicated issue, and there are multiple facets. Some do join for cameraderie and fellowship. Others join for the excitement of the thug lifestyle, while others join for the money they think they'll be able to get as a member, or for protection against other gangs... or even just because.
and it's as hard to really change.
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care to elaborate further?
Your Brother
John
Obviously no one on this board ever wants to see any harm come to LE, CO, teachers of adjudicated kids, or the general public. And I personally would never take on a MA student that I doubted would do the right thing/change for the better along the MA path (or if I did later regret it, would turn up the heat--if they're for real, they'll take it; if not, they're gone). There's a big difference in California between adult and juvenile gangs, and gang members. Drac, I'm wondering if the book you're talking about was more for use by adult gangsters, who are basically career criminals? For one thing, the juvenile bangers I've known (and the number is legion :uhyeah wouldn't have near the discipline to learn anything that complicated. Just bring this up because I and probably some others are only speaking of juveniles. Adult gangsters I would never touch.
Actually they should be teaching many martial arts instructors.
Unsure about that...I believe the officer that put that info sheet for us together said it was "juvies"..NEVER underestimate these punk kids..To learn a new skill to put a hurting on "po-po" they'll invest the time..I
When the OP was referring to gangs and kids, he was referring to a time decades ago. Individuals like Mike Pick and the rest that he referred to came from a different time. Now, I think that gangs are different. I get the feeling that they are more violent and more willing then ever to do crime. Also, it seems like the organizations are a lot tighter and far reaching then ever before.
I agree with what Drac is saying, how can you really trust that they are out? How can you really know that you are not being had? Bangers these days lie as much as most people breath. They'll do whatever they feel they need to do to get what they want. And I think the story about the guy who joined the military and then brought the marksmenship training back to his homies is a great illustration of this.
It would take a lot for me to accept an "ex-banger" and even then it would take even longer for them to gain my trust. These guys can be nice to your face one minute and stab you in the back in the next without even a blink.