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Hey, zDom, no listen, I wasn't directing any of that *at* you (or anyone)---or putting you `on trial'. What I'm really interested in is the dynamics of the discussion and how often they seem to go that route---and what there is about the topic that causes people to get into these kinds of struggles with each other. I don't think it's just different styles of personality---it seems to happen in MA discussions very often. I just have the feeling that there's something about the topic itself that causes people's reactions to flare up, and then make excessively strong statements, and then other find those statements unfounded or irrational as well as offensive, and off we go...
I *agree* with you that the fact that you've never seen X hardly means that
X couldn't happen. But what interests me is that when people get on this particular topic they often appeal to such arguments in a kind of stubborn desperateness to get their point across, because it's really important to them---I suspect, anyway---to defend their conception of fight strategy. It's an issue very close to where we all live, in a way, at least to the extent that we take MA seriously---for at least some people, it has to do with how they feel about their own martial art, the need to make it clear to others (and themselves too, maybe) that they chose correctly in what to study, that they haven't been wasting their time all these years. My own guess is that that's where a lot of the heat in the argument comes from.
I just had a similar insight:
In reference to the point of contention where people who have never formally competed have nonetheless used their skills to survive: Over and above the obvious irritation that would be felt at someone wishing them to "prove" what they already know worked where it mattered, I wonder........Having to stop a live threat for real has got to be, for most people, potentially an intense and possibly traumatic experience. it being outside the norm of the average "comfort zone". Taken to extremes such as being subjected to constant conditions such as warfare a person can end up with PTSD.
I wonder could such a person's emotions be fueled by such an incident as to how vehemently the position is defended/the fellow from the sports crowd is ridiculed? I noticed this once listening to an ex combat veteran showing someone a technique on an informal basis, and it seemed to me
that he was insistent to a greater degree than i notice from other MAists that THIS was the WAY the MOVE was DONE because it SAVED his LIFE and that was all there was to it.
Could this be a factor and if so, is it going unrecognized?
Am I bonkers or might i have something here?