I think he's stating that's the situation that hes in.Err.....what? You are spouting a whole load of hypothetical situations at us and claiming them to be facts....
That in his town there is a tkd school and a kickboxing school, that compete against each other at tournaments in both, and kickboxing always comes out ahead, so he's trying to figure out why.
If that is correct (and if your issue is that you attend/teach at the tkd school) you need to look at what the kickboxing school is doing that you're not. Kickboxing is not inherently better than tkd, and should not have an advantage over tkd in a tkd competition. If this is a consistent issue, my assumption is that the tkd school is lacking somewhere, and it's the instructors job you find out why/ where and fix it.