Question for everyone;
I was thinking about this at our seminar this past weekend, plus there is a similar thread here.
So, who will you take corrections from?
Personally I will listen to anyone, low rank, no rank or high rank. Evaluate what they say, go through it in my mind, recall what I was taught and then give the other persons opinion its due, one way or another.
Im a mid rank, but I find when there are some serious ranks around few listen to anyone but the serious ranks. For example about two years ago, I was in a situation once where I was practicing with another person who constantly made the same mistake, hurting me a bit in the process. I corrected him a handful of times, and he essentially ignored me, looking at me like I was an idiot, and arguing that I didnt know what I was talking about. I finally asked the 8th dan to join us and watch us practice, low and behold buddy made the same mistake and the 8th dan gave him the same correction I did!! He bowed and groveled to sensei and ignored me.
This past weekend I had a similar situation, though not as bad. This past weekend I also took corrections from people my rank and lower, no problem, if Im screwing up I hope someone notices and tells me.
So honestly who will you take corrections from?
I was thinking about this at our seminar this past weekend, plus there is a similar thread here.
So, who will you take corrections from?
Personally I will listen to anyone, low rank, no rank or high rank. Evaluate what they say, go through it in my mind, recall what I was taught and then give the other persons opinion its due, one way or another.
Im a mid rank, but I find when there are some serious ranks around few listen to anyone but the serious ranks. For example about two years ago, I was in a situation once where I was practicing with another person who constantly made the same mistake, hurting me a bit in the process. I corrected him a handful of times, and he essentially ignored me, looking at me like I was an idiot, and arguing that I didnt know what I was talking about. I finally asked the 8th dan to join us and watch us practice, low and behold buddy made the same mistake and the 8th dan gave him the same correction I did!! He bowed and groveled to sensei and ignored me.
This past weekend I had a similar situation, though not as bad. This past weekend I also took corrections from people my rank and lower, no problem, if Im screwing up I hope someone notices and tells me.
So honestly who will you take corrections from?