Ummm I never came into martial arts because I wanted to fight. I also wasn't looking forward to a Honk Kong movie style showdown with an evil foreman and his henchmen at the old ice factory. I started learning because I saw how happy all my friends who practiced martial arts were. The self defense application is a bonus. The peace of mind and camaraderie in a dojo is what I like best. I also like spending my time doing something beneficial for the body instead of playing Xbox and eating Doritos. You can practice anywhere. Literally. Sometimes you get into the zone and then realize a crowd of kids gathered to watch when last time you checked, you were the sole inhabitant of the park.
I don't dream of "the fight." I do, however, visualize my opponent when practicing kata or fundamentals.