Chris Parker
Grandmaster
If we do what we train why then do the soldiers that do MMA manage to fight successfully in MMA, fight in combat succesfully and fight I mean 'defend' themselves so successfully in street/club situations? All three things train differently. Why are peple so sure that we stay in one frame of mind in situatons, I can succesfully change tack when at work or when in the club and then again between street situations and I'm not a very good martial artist.
I'll try to explain this one. The highlighted aspects above are the important bits...
There are different aspects of the mind of a human being, which have developed seperately over our evolution, starting with the primal survival aspect (sometimes refered to as the Lizard Brain), which then had a social and emotional aspect imposed on top of that (refered to as the Mammalian Brain), and finally the conscious mind on top of that. The oldest is the Lizard Brain, and it is purely concerned with existing from one moment to the next. It is this part of your brain that regulates your breathing, your heartbeat, your sleep and hunger. It is primal and simple, but being the oldest (first evolved) part, it is incredibly strong. In fact, it is the strongest part of your brain, and is in control of pretty much everything.
The Mammalian Brain developed next, and gave us our socialisation and emotional responces, allowing interaction with others, leading to social groups and structures. Think of the same type of social groupings that you see in chimpanzees and you can see the effects of the Mammalian Brain. Chimps express many emotions, and work in a social group, interacting and co-operating quite well. But the human conscious mind hasn't made an appearance here, a number of aspects of it are missing, most notably language. This part of your brain, as mentioned, gives you your emotional responces, which goes towards explaining why you can be "controlled" by your emotions, even in spite of your conscious thoughts (the Mammalian Brain is older than the Conscious Brain, so it's stronger. However the Lizard Brain still trumps it for sheer controlling strength).
The most recent evolution of our brain is the Conscious Brain. This is, realistically speaking, a last-minute tack-on to the actual powerhouse that is our brain. This part, however, is the loudest. As mentioned, one of the key aspects of the Conscious Brain is language, and the recognition and application of it. This allows the communication of ideas, which leads to invention, which leads to technical improvements and adaptations, but also lends itself to internal chatter. This internal chatter makes us think that the Conscious Brain is in control, simply because that's the part we keep hearing all the time. It's actually the weakest of all, is the easiest to take out of the equation, and is in control of very little. But as it is always chattering away, saying "Look at me, listen to me, I am the real you, what I say is true, if I think it then that is the truth!", when none of those claims are actually true (this is what I was getting at with Alcatraz earlier when I was talking about his actual reasons for training, and it being far more than just self defence).
The real you is actually made up of the Lizard Brain and the Mammalian Brain, with a little bit on top from the Conscious Brain, but honestly very little of that. The Lizard Brain and Mammalian Brain combine to make up what is refered to as the Unconscious Mind (or Subconscious, which is a more Jungian term). The real you is not what you think you would do, the real you is what you would actually do. The real you is not what you reason the reality should be, it is what your unconscious knows the reality is.
The aspects of your personality are made up of various layers, namely;
- Experiences. These are the list of encounters of various types that relate to particular aspect of life. The important thing to realise here is that the Unconscious Mind cannot differentiate between reality and fantasy, so if your entire experience in something (say, martial arts) is from watching movies, then that will be taken as the basis for your next few aspects of your personality.
- Beliefs. Coming directly from your experiences, you form your beliefs. If you experience touching a hot stove and being burnt, you get the belief that getting burnt (and by extension touching hot things) hurts.
- Values. From your experiences you get your beliefs. However your beliefs are non-judgemental, they are neither positive nor negative. That is where values come in. From touching the hot stove and learning that getting burnt hurts, most will typically get the value that getting burnt, and being in pain, is not very pleasant, so it will not be valued very highly. On the other hand, though, if after being burnt your mother comes over and dotes a large amount of attention on you, making an over-the-top fuss, maybe giving you treats you would normally never get, then you may associate that reward with the attention from being injured, and then value it highly in order to promote the same attention and reward again. So the one experience can lead to very different values, depending on how it all goes down, and previous experiences (not getting rewards before, for example, can lead to a high value for them due to their scarcity, leading to a high value for recieving them, even trumping the low value for feeling pain).
- Behaviours. This is where those beliefs and values are expressed, and despite what most people think, your behaviours are not governed by your conscious mind at all. They are an expression of your unconscious beliefs and values, just with your conscious mind chattering over the top, making it seem like it's in control. In our example, if the burnt child develops the standard "pain = low value", then the individual could have behaviours that lead them to avoid such experiences again, in a positive, balanced individual that means a degree of healthy caution, in a less balanced one a severe phobia. If the burnt child develops a high value (for the percieved associated reward), then that could lead them to seek out such experiences, leading to dangerous experiences, ranging from being an adrenaline junkie, to more S&M type personalities.
The most important thing to notice in the above is that the Unconscious Mind will always choose what it percieves as the best of any presented options. The child who values pain highly chose it as the better option due to the percieved rewards associated.
Another thing to realise is that these processes take place early in your development. In fact, most of your core value and beliefs, and by extension your behaviours, and therefore what we refer to as your personality, are set by the time you are 7 (leading to the classic Catholic statement "Give me a boy until he is 7, and I will give you the man"), with final adjustments being taken on up til about the age of 16. After that, the main methods of changing any aspect of your personality are either therapy, or a traumatic incident.
Essentially, therapy and a traumatic incident are the same thing, just with a different timeline, and more control over the therapy form. In both cases the person is exposed to experiences that confront the established beliefs, forcing an alteration to that belief, or simple abandoning it entirely. This naturally leads to new values, which gives new behaviours, leading to a personality change. I'm sure you've all heard of people who have had a "life-changing experience", been involved in a major accident (or know someone who has), gotten a major illness, and so on. These are examples of traumatic experiences, forcing established beliefs to be challenged, and then new beliefs taking over.
Martial arts are actually very much the therapy version of this (although if I am asked to get someone good at self defence in a hurry, it is much more the traumatic version....), in that you are guided through a range of experiences (techniques, training drills, pressure tests, competition, sparring etc) which challenge your beliefs about what is powerful, effective, and so on in regard to fighting, martial arts, and anything related in your Unconscious Mind, leading to new values, which in turn give rise to new bahaviours. In essence, this means that if you train in such a way that you experience what you consider success in competition, your belief will most likely become that the competitive form of training is good, effective, powerful etc, you will value it highly, and your behaviours will change to match successful actions in the competitive form you train in. Essentially the behaviours match what you value highly out of your new beliefs, based on your experiences.
So the next thing is to realise what is actually happening when you are forming these new beliefs. In your Unconsious Mind there are certain compartments, boxes for certain aspects of your life. These boxes might be "Pleasure", "Relaxation", "Fun", "Taste", and so on. Each of these have their place in either the Lizard Brain or the Mammalian Brain. For example, those listed above will most likely be placed somewhere in the Mammalian Brain, as they are more to do with emotional/sensual inputs and experiences, rather than the pure survival aspect of the Lizard Brain. So you need to understand which part of the brain you are programming when you are training, and that really comes down to how you train it. If you train in a half-hearted fashion, or a light-hearted fashion, then you are basically telling your Unconscious Mind that what you are experiencing is "Fun", or "Pleasure", maybe even "Relaxation", meaning that it is not put into the "Survival", "Serious Life Saving Skill" box in the Lizard Brain.
As you said above, each is trained differently. And that is important (this is why I could say that your MMA training and your SD training is seperate), as if they weren't then there would be bad news. If everything was trained the same (MMA, SD, Military Methods), then the MMA part would see real injuries very often (from training it with the mindset of either SD or Military), or dangerous tactics and strategies would be employed in a real situation (from training them with an MMA mindset). So the more seperation you can generate, the simpler it is to adapt, as all that really needs to happen then is for the Unconsious Mind to recognise the situation it is in, and look to previous experiences in that field to generate the correct beliefs, values, and behaviours. That way an MMA guy who also trains SD and as a member of the Armed Forces can always go to what is appropriate, whereas someone who trains exclusively in MMA can have some issues. The difference is not in the technical approach, it's in the understanding of the mindset in training (what I was talking about in the post above, you don't have the option of changing your mindset in a real situation, so you choose your mindset for the results you want in your training, and that is where you can change things around). And by training with the different mindsets for different situations, that is how you can adapt to different situations as they happen. And that is what I am talking about when I talk about the frame of mind in the situation. It needs to be addressed beforehand (in training), as you will only have available to you what you have already put in.
Okay, that was a long one as well.... hope it made some kind of sense!