Psilent Knight
Blue Belt
There is something I wanted to clear up a few posts back but I never got the chance to because I've allowed myself to join in the festivities of the entertainment committee. But the thing that started the full scale attack was my "Deafening Silence" remark. I can see why that would put a sour taste in some people's mouths.
Okay, first and foremost, that was an unnecessary and over the top remark and would have been better left unsaid. I accept accountability for the brief interlude in discussion that remark initiated.
Secondly, it was not the multi colored comparison post that I was referring to and was awaiting a response for. It was the two youtube links I provided and asking the participants what they would do in those situations.
Third of all, my "deafening silence" remark was not hinting at people's incapability to answer the question. I was hinting at an unwillingness to answer because no matter how you answer or approach it the possibility exists of those incidents being lose-lose situations. You either lose to aggressors or lose to the judges and jurors. So to answer would force us to be honest with ourselves and possibly negate what has been said (stance wise) up to that point. That is all I was referring to.
Fourth, I actually reached a point where I was no longer expecting a response to the links because of what I just said in the above statement.
I guess I didn't do a very good job of making my position crystal clear. Even now there are people here STILL TELLING ME that I have some kind of uncontrollable blood lust.
But basically I am saying that the law breaking trouble makers and the policy makers who do not live among or have to be bothered with said trouble makers are all saying that your life, health and well being mean little to nothing at all to them. They each say this in their own ways respectively. The trouble makers who want to end your life to take what you have and the legislators, prosecutors, judges and jurors placing protocols upon you to defend your life (not your material possessions mind you. If I know that's all they want and they have no intention of doing me any physical harm I would just hand over my material possessions and live to see another day). But these protocols aren't as solid and flawless as law makers would have you believe. I know that if a man who is 5'7, weighs 150 lbs. and is not a fighter wakes up in the middle of the knight to find a man who's about 6'2 or 6'3 and maybe 230 lbs raping his teen daughter and he shoots the guy (shooting to end his actions not specifically shooting to kill) and the guy ends up dead somehow, then this 5'7, 150 lbs. father is in hot water. We all know this. The law, the system, the courts CANNOT POSSIBLY KNOW the immediate circumstances of this type of situation. The fear, the anger, the pressure, the tunnel vision, THE SHOCK. The inability to do anything else with this monster. What else can this father and husband do?
Now, I'm well aware of what the SD laws in my state say in letter, but I am as equally aware of what they say in practice and application. If I tell my employees that they have the right to speak their minds and air out their grievances but usually suspend them or fire them for doing just that then what am I REALLY saying? I'm really saying that they don't have the right unless I grant them that right. And me suspending and/or firing them is me letting them know that I do not grant them that right in application. Only in letter.
If the laws tell you that you have the right to self defense but STILL prosecute you even in cut-and-dry situations of SD then what are these laws REALLY saying? These laws are saying you really don't have the right to defend yourself unless THEY grant you that right. And them prosecuting you is their way of letting you know that you don't have the right to SD regardless of what the letter of the law says. What I'm saying there are people in this world who decide whether you live or die and I'm not talking about the law breakers when I say this. How can you allow others to tell YOU what value YOUR LIFE has in this world? No one here can HONESTLY claim (let alone prove) that there are no law abiding citizens sitting in prison now because of circumstantial evidence (or the lack thereof), an overzealous prosecutor and the defendant not having the needed representation.
You guys seem to forget that prosecutors are not good people. They make a living out of putting people in prison. They love doing this and they are very happy with themselves for doing this. And they are NOT concerned with the actual guilt or innocence of their prey. They're only concerned with amassing a "lock 'em up and throw away the key" reputation.
But I said it before. This idea was ingrained in us from the time we were little kids all the way into adulthood. Very people are willing to sit back and ask themselves "Is this morally right?". Very few people are willing to question this arrangement. Very people are unwilling or unable to see the holes and flaws in this arrangement. Very people are able to realize and admit that other people have more control over your ability to defend yourself and your family than you do. And those who do realize this seem to not see anything wrong with it.
I could go into other reasons why I so thoroughly disagree with this arrangement but that would be outside the scope of a Martial Arts discussion forum and would require me to pull out the soap box (some here may think I have already).
It's essentially a never ending topic, but an important one.
Okay, first and foremost, that was an unnecessary and over the top remark and would have been better left unsaid. I accept accountability for the brief interlude in discussion that remark initiated.
Secondly, it was not the multi colored comparison post that I was referring to and was awaiting a response for. It was the two youtube links I provided and asking the participants what they would do in those situations.
Third of all, my "deafening silence" remark was not hinting at people's incapability to answer the question. I was hinting at an unwillingness to answer because no matter how you answer or approach it the possibility exists of those incidents being lose-lose situations. You either lose to aggressors or lose to the judges and jurors. So to answer would force us to be honest with ourselves and possibly negate what has been said (stance wise) up to that point. That is all I was referring to.
Fourth, I actually reached a point where I was no longer expecting a response to the links because of what I just said in the above statement.
I guess I didn't do a very good job of making my position crystal clear. Even now there are people here STILL TELLING ME that I have some kind of uncontrollable blood lust.
But basically I am saying that the law breaking trouble makers and the policy makers who do not live among or have to be bothered with said trouble makers are all saying that your life, health and well being mean little to nothing at all to them. They each say this in their own ways respectively. The trouble makers who want to end your life to take what you have and the legislators, prosecutors, judges and jurors placing protocols upon you to defend your life (not your material possessions mind you. If I know that's all they want and they have no intention of doing me any physical harm I would just hand over my material possessions and live to see another day). But these protocols aren't as solid and flawless as law makers would have you believe. I know that if a man who is 5'7, weighs 150 lbs. and is not a fighter wakes up in the middle of the knight to find a man who's about 6'2 or 6'3 and maybe 230 lbs raping his teen daughter and he shoots the guy (shooting to end his actions not specifically shooting to kill) and the guy ends up dead somehow, then this 5'7, 150 lbs. father is in hot water. We all know this. The law, the system, the courts CANNOT POSSIBLY KNOW the immediate circumstances of this type of situation. The fear, the anger, the pressure, the tunnel vision, THE SHOCK. The inability to do anything else with this monster. What else can this father and husband do?
Now, I'm well aware of what the SD laws in my state say in letter, but I am as equally aware of what they say in practice and application. If I tell my employees that they have the right to speak their minds and air out their grievances but usually suspend them or fire them for doing just that then what am I REALLY saying? I'm really saying that they don't have the right unless I grant them that right. And me suspending and/or firing them is me letting them know that I do not grant them that right in application. Only in letter.
If the laws tell you that you have the right to self defense but STILL prosecute you even in cut-and-dry situations of SD then what are these laws REALLY saying? These laws are saying you really don't have the right to defend yourself unless THEY grant you that right. And them prosecuting you is their way of letting you know that you don't have the right to SD regardless of what the letter of the law says. What I'm saying there are people in this world who decide whether you live or die and I'm not talking about the law breakers when I say this. How can you allow others to tell YOU what value YOUR LIFE has in this world? No one here can HONESTLY claim (let alone prove) that there are no law abiding citizens sitting in prison now because of circumstantial evidence (or the lack thereof), an overzealous prosecutor and the defendant not having the needed representation.
You guys seem to forget that prosecutors are not good people. They make a living out of putting people in prison. They love doing this and they are very happy with themselves for doing this. And they are NOT concerned with the actual guilt or innocence of their prey. They're only concerned with amassing a "lock 'em up and throw away the key" reputation.
But I said it before. This idea was ingrained in us from the time we were little kids all the way into adulthood. Very people are willing to sit back and ask themselves "Is this morally right?". Very few people are willing to question this arrangement. Very people are unwilling or unable to see the holes and flaws in this arrangement. Very people are able to realize and admit that other people have more control over your ability to defend yourself and your family than you do. And those who do realize this seem to not see anything wrong with it.
I could go into other reasons why I so thoroughly disagree with this arrangement but that would be outside the scope of a Martial Arts discussion forum and would require me to pull out the soap box (some here may think I have already).
It's essentially a never ending topic, but an important one.
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