YES YES YES!! thank you..
but i will add this works in both genders, teachers love the arts but fail to take on the concept of responsibility. if any student is in a violent situation and does not come out alive, martial arts teachers often fail to understand that this is a possibility and that, that particular student may have been depending on the teacher to give him proper skills.
TEZ and others ,,
i am going to recommend to you the book "Left of bang" if you have not already or are familiar with it. i think you Tez would be able to appreciate the context.
not so much the details but for the over arching philosophy. i teach and train something very similar. however modified for civilian self defense.
in my context there is a time line. there is.....pre event-- event--post event. most people only focus on the EVENT. this is where the focus of martial arts comes in for some cases, however there is PRE EVENT and POST EVENT that is totaly ignored or given lip service.
no no no....anything that has not been thought about and defind will more likely fail during a violent event.