Not my point about the training, I was showing Hoshin that training is advertised as being gender specific. I said that training is targeted ( not whether it was good training or bad) towards women these days because it's good business, he said he wasn't seeing that but if you use Googlefu you will see hundreds if not thousands of gender specific classes.
I wasn't looking at it as whether the women liked the training or not just that he was wrong when he said they weren't targeting women. I'm not saying they shouldn't be either, it's a good idea for women to train and to train in female only classes.
Self defence training should be realistic, not just in the techniques taught but the rest of the self defence arsenal, it shouldn't scaremonger, it should give all possibilities of how to deal with an attack rather than 'scratch his eyes out' ( yes I've seen that advice on a video on FB) you could but it has to be in context, unlike the video the attacker isn't going to stand there and let you. Working with unresisting partners which allow people to think their techniques work is ridiculous in all training never mind self defence training, giving people a false sense of security likewise. If you are thinking I'm not advocating self defence training for women then you are incorrect, I just want it to be useful and correct training which has been thought out from a victims view point not that of a black belt who wants to show how he can help and tells a woman she must fight under all circumstances because that's what he would do, it's well meaning but deadly advice.
Yes victims are most likely attacked by someone they know, the statistics aren't just that, each one is a story of misery and horror for the victims.