... However, to put things in context and to discover personal issues of your own psyche in conflict, I think its great. They do the same in self-defense courses, and in many ways, you come out of those courses better prepared after the experience because of the level of reality it brings to the emotional aspect of the training..
Wen we do our "women's self defense" course, a good portion of it is aobut the emotional capacity to do something in the face of danger. it is not unusual for some of them to become very emotional, upset, etc.
We have a few of the mroe fool-hardy (or altruistic) kenpo students come to class, pad up, and the women get to smack us around some. It seems to help. We offer 1-night and 6-night versions, in the longer version, it gets a lot mroe physcial )see my youtube page for an example, under KempoDavid)