TSDTexan
Master of Arts
I don't think you can, You as the teacher can set things up but it is up to the individuals to put into it what they want, You cannot force them to go harder or longer or faster etc you can advise cajole and nudge but in the end it their choice and their path, you only provide the route map
I have found that a Good martial arts curriculum and pedagogy is a sorting table for minds. This is a byproduct. But it can be a useful one.
The mind that is hopeful it can do it
The mind that says I can do this
The mind that doesn't care how much it hurts, its going to get done.
The mind that gives up under adversity
The mind that is here to be entertained
There are some mindsets that hinder their growth.
While it is certainly true that we cannot make anyone do anything.
That doesn't mean we cannot act in an effective manner to address this.
A student can be admonished: The intensity is going to go up! When it does they have 2 choices. They will grow and push through or they will become upset and drop out.
This can be especially challenging if you run a martial arts afterschool daycare to pay the school bills. Fun was never a necessity in training for self defense.
But it is helpful, almost absolutely necessary for the engagement of the child or adolescent mind, that classes are fun, and lightly challenging.