I'm sure this is true. But you haven't once acknowledged that what I have been saying can also be true. Just ask Alex Richter!
I do recognize that it can be true.
I donāt know what happened between you and Alex richter. I read your exchange and there is a lot of finger pointing but I wasnāt there and donāt know what actually happened. For all I know, you could both absolutely BELIEVE that you are right and yet both be wrong due to perspectives and misunderstandings. You you could both simply be selectively embellishing the part of the story that you feel casts yourself in the best light, or you could both be outright lying. Sure, it is also possible that one of you is being honest and the other is a liar.
But I am not in a position to judge that.
If a student had already been teaching with full recognition and endorsement of his sifu, and then sifu pulled his endorsement and started saying that the student is not qualified to teach, well then I would say the student should feel free to separate from his sifu and continue to do whatever he wants. Time to go it alone.
But if a student never had that kind of endorsement to begin with, then I put more stock into sifuās assessment. Itās harder to claim the right to be a teacher in that case, there is a lot less credibility.
It is also possible that sifu has endorsed the student to be a teacher, and then the student gets some weird ideas and starts teaching a bunch of stuff that sifu feels is erroneous and is bad teaching. In that case, sifu says āI no longer endorse him as a student, he should not teach and if he does so, then it is against my wishes and he is no longer associated with me.ā Sifu does have the right to take that position as well. Student can either change his ways and get in line with sifuās vision of how things ought to be done, or he can make the separation and do as he will. But even if student does that, sifu can still continue to speak up and tell people that the student is teaching poor XYZ Kung Fu.
People get all bent out of shape over what they perceive as limits that others are imposing on them. So some people decide, well screw it, Iāll do what I want, and it is true that nobody can stop them.
But what is also true is that sifu, and those in his camp, can also speak up against what the student doing. Nobody can stop them from doing that, either. Just because one side feels riteous about it does not mean that the other side doesnāt feel just as strongly. And both can speak up about it, and it can get nasty.
It is a two-way street. That is reality. Once you get yourself, or find yourself, in that situation, it may follow you forever. Fair or not, that is life.
A lot of Kung Fu training is about the relationships, and it seems people donāt always realize that or give it the thought that it merits.