I don't really get what you are trying to say. Almost seems like those that need a cane to walk feel offended if someone carry a cane not for walking. What I do has nothing to do with those that need a cane.
I pick up a cane since the beginning of last year when older Asians are being attacked on the street. And I practice hard in using the cane as stick fight. I am not going to say I have a few years in MA and I can defend myself, bad things happens when one is over confident even though I still practice MA and exercise 7 hours a week. A cane and practice how to use it can only help.
I am not going to comment on how others feel, I can only speak for myself that I DO NOT under estimate the opponent and I do not think too highly of myself that I can defend myself bare handed. Those that think they can confidently defending themselves, good for them. I always practice and prepare. Particular now that I am getting old and slowing down no matter how hard I try. I can use all the help I can get.
I hope people don't get offended when others that don't need a cane but carrying one. This has nothing to do with you needing a cane. It's all about how I feel to prepare myself.
Not offended, at least speaking personally. But I'll try to choose my words wisely because I do think this is complex issue.
I'll preface this by saying that I think in a perfect world, you should be able to carry whatever you like, including things classed as actual weapons. But, we don't live in that world. So, with different restrictions in different countries around the globe, there's this cottage industry that has grown up around the idea of looking for things that you can press into service as weapons pretty much anywhere with no restrictions.
I don't think there's anything wrong with that on the face of it, and as an exercise in learning more, I look for these topics myself. As a disabled cane-user, though, I have some more nuanced thoughts about the seeming rise of the cane as "everybody's weapon of choice" in recent decades. I know cane fighting has been a niche in MA since before I was born, but selling canes as
primarily defensive tools seems to have really taken off in the past few years. That's not necessarily bad, but the whole reason behind it is that canes are innocuous and
traditionally associated with infirmity, age, or both. While they can be dangerous in trained hands, the whole point of their popularity today is "no one will look twice because cane."
And I get that appeal, especially since it gives one the freedom to go anywhere in the world with it. What I don't want to happen, as unlikely as it may be, is for people to start seeing canes as primarily weapons. It could cause trouble for people like me, and I have enough of that just being a disabled guy in this world. I think that is probably unlikely given that there aren't
that many people carrying canes in the streets today.
But, researching canes as I do, I've come across quite a few companies that encourage pretty much anyone to buy canes just to carry around. It's not for me to say whether that is right or wrong, but I will say that it does kind of rub me the wrong way (again, not enough to be offended by it). There's even one company that--for an extra fee of course--will send you a laminated card you can show people that says your cane is a medical device and they can't hassle you about it. Numbers printed on the card in case of trouble, including the number to the ADA, which is a document and not an organization. I still don't know what that phone number goes to.
No such card is necessary, at least not yet. Further, it kind of rubs me the wrong way that this company is catering to people who want canes for defense and outright telling them to make it look like a medical issue as much as possible. That's an indictment of the company more so than it is anyone who wants to carry a cane, but it's still one that I think bears talking about.
I'm not offended by people who want to carry a cane that never touches the ground. I just don't fully understand it. If I didn't need a cane to walk and maintain my balance, I could do a thousand other things that are excellent for self-defense that I can't do today, and the cane would be unnecessary--it wouldn't enter my mind to even purchase or carry one with me because my options would be greatly expanded already.
There's value in finding force multipliers not classed as weapons, surely. But, I sometimes think people without any physical issues, strong and abled men particularly, don't realize just how many options they have at their disposal just by... being normal. I think many people who are desperately searching for innocuous weapons (which is not to say you are desperate, by any means) don't realize just what kind of playing field they are on already. I don't envy that; I'm happy for them.