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People (especially those not in MA) still take the arts way out of context! I don't know how many people still think it's all about kicking someone's "but", it sure seems like a lot (at least in my area).
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tkdgirl said:People (especially those not in MA) still take the arts way out of context! I don't know how many people still think it's all about kicking someone's "but", it sure seems like a lot (at least in my area).
Tgace said:I agree...even in the military you dont salute officers when you are both in civilian clothes. And I typically refer to someone I do not have a personal relationship of some sort with as Sir or Ma'am, unless they have specifically asked me do do otherwise.
Different scenario. I would do as you do. But when your Sabumnim is Korean, and that is their custom, to not do so is considered rude. If my situation where as you described, I would act accordingly. It's just a question of manners. Different cultures, different manners.Old Fat Kenpoka said:OK, here is something to ponder for all of you who bow to your sensei in public or call him Sensei, Sifu, or whatever.
What if your instructor only teaches part time? What if he is with his co-workers? What if his co-workers don't know he is a martial arts instructor? What if he doesn't want his co-workers to know he is a martial arts instructor?
This happened to me in the late '80s. It caused me a lot of ribbing, a challenge match from a co-worker with no training and a pea-brain, and an unsolicited attack from behind by a co-worker who took one in the nuts as a result.
Sometimes, the greatest sign of respect is simply some discretion.
cali_tkdbruin said:Outside of the dojang I would still address our master instructor as sabumnim or sir. I do it just as a sign of respect since he's shared so much with me and taught me so much about our beloved MA... :asian:
arnisador said:Bowing seems excessive to me. Using "Mr./Ms." and "Sir/Ma'am" should suffice, no?