Accepted terms need only be accepted by those using them. And since everyone else here seems to have a common understanding of the term - despite coming from different backgrounds - it seems unlikely we've all stumbled into the same uncommon usage.Well it's not by definition an accepted term as I Diagree, And seemingly so do most dictionaries, ,
In your new an unofficial defintion, what aspect of pain or compliance have changed from the dictionary drfintion and what is the new meaning of the combined phrase, that doesn't include compliance through pain
But go ahead and claim I've made that usage up. I'll be interested in seeing your attempt at logic in face of contrary fact.