JR 137
Grandmaster
We do several things that I think brings us together. They werenāt done in my previous dojo nor many others that Iāve seen. Hereās a few examples...That's what I really want for my program. I'd love for a core group to have a real sense of community.
Dojo cleanup day
- About quarterly. We get together and clean the place up. Everything comes off the walls and gets dusted, the mats get a thorough washing, mirrors get windexed. One of the guys has a hardwood floor washer/vacuum. Stuff like that. It reinforces that taking pride in the place mentality. No oneās required to, but no one skips out. Parents who donāt train even lend a helping hand. In a commercial dojo, this wouldnāt go over well IMO.
- Annual Christmas party
Everyone brings something to eat or drink. Black belts bring an inexpensive wrapped boy or girl gift or two. Kids (including kids that donāt train but parents do) get a ticket, and pick a gift when their ticket is drawn. Whatever toys are left over go to toys for tots charity. Itās a couple hour Sunday afternoon get together at the dojo. Nothing elaborate.
-Black belt dinner
My CI and his wife host the black belts and their spouses at their house. I havenāt been there (not bb yet), but it seems to be a BBQ or the like. Iām sure people bring a few things to eat or drink out of courtesy.
- Annual beach training
Black belts meet at CIās house early in the morning and do a short workout. Iāve been told itās like a black belt review class. All karateka meet at the local beach around 10 am we have a workout. We rent a pavilion and have a picnic afterwards. We pay about $10 a head and bring side dishes/desserts. Any extra money goes to charity.
With all this stuff, everyone helps set up, break down, etc. People volunteer to do certain things or bring certain things. Nothingās mandatory nor expected. Iāve never heard anyone complain about anything.
None of this is elaborate or over the top. Itās just us getting together. The only times things get a bit formal is when itās a special time like our 30th anniversary during this yearās beach training. Other than a few awards, speeches, and catered food rather than the norm, that was pretty much business as usual too. We had several out of town guests and Nakamura and Charles Martin were there, so we rolled out the red carpet a little bit.
I donāt think these things would be the same in a commercial dojo. People would probably look at them as just another way to get money from them. And theyād probably get overblown too. I think itās the little stuff like this that truly makes the sense of family.