I don't want to offend anyone but I agree that a lot of this martial philosophy is hypocritical, given that Japan, China, to a broader extent all of Asia is one of the most violent, war torn areas in all of human history.
So I think it's ironic that people buy into these "martial virtue" type signals, in places where billions have died violently. It's a contradictory pattern. If Taoism and Buddhist ideals actually worked as written, you would think Japan and China would be the most peaceful countries. But that never actually happened.