Are you being purposefully obstinate, to kill discussion in this thread?
I think everyone's being a little obstinate. The genesis for this thread was comments made by ballen about how real self defense is taking down a pcp crazed drug addict while walking the mean streets of Baltimore. I think that's ridiculous, and the average joe has as much of a chance of being in that situation as stepping into the Octagon.
I'll try a different tack here to see if I can get the point across. First, just more as a disclaimer. Cops have a dangerous job, as do bouncers and anyone else who puts themselves into harms' way professionally. This isn't intended to be in any way a negative thread about LEO. It's intended to highlight a double standard that exists.
The question I continue to have is pretty well illustrated in the exchange below:
By the way from my experience police tend to have terrible deescalation skills. My belief is because they can tazer people.
Police where I live do not have the ability to tazer people. Even using any weapon or tool could lead to a hearing in order to prove there was proper cause.
Do I believe the police where I live have good deescalation skills? Yes, even seen it myself. Not all cops but a lot of situations I have witnessed at least. Perhaps they do because deescalation is their goal and they had to have gained quite a bit experience in it.
A police is not different to any other, it is just that they are in a scenario where they can train and improve in what they do, and to many what they do is handle harmful and violent situations in order to live another day as well as making the world around them a bit safer.
Drop Bear remarks that the cops he has experienced are terrible at de-escalation, and his belief is because they don't have to de-escalate. They have tasers, which effectively de-escalate for them. This is along the same lines I proposed in the OP. A cop who has a gun, a radio, a vest, maybe a trained German Shephard, a taser, or any of the other tools that a cop typically has available, does not act in any way like someone who doesn't have those things.
Phobius responded that where he's from, they don't have tasers. AND, so they have better de-escalation technique than those who rely on different tools.
Is the point that cops are bad at de-escalation? No, but it illustrates that cops function within a very specific reality. It's different from being an MMA fighter, but it's ALSO different from being other than a cop.
The point I'm trying to make is that there is a presumption that learning combat skills in an MMA school is not self defense but arresting drug addicts is. I think both are aspects of self defense AND both can lead to some pretty alarming biases and misconceptions about what the average joe is going to encounter.
As an analogy, I have a well established bias against people who drive Volvos. If anyone here drives a Volvo, let me just first say that you are surely an exception to the following rule. Volvo drivers are reckless, because they believe they can be. That's my theory. I've always driven small cars and was a long time driver of aircooled VWs. I've had several bugs, a bus and a Karmann Ghia over the years. These are not safe cars. But I was and am a very safe driver. I developed skills that were critical to my survival, because people (Volvo drivers) were oblivious. I can't stop the Volvo driver from tailgating me, but I can do things to mitigate the danger.
In the same way, cops are a product of their environment. As I've said repeatedly, there is a lot of overlap, but cops develop bad habits that are a direct result of a need to do a job that isn't self defense and the tools that they have available which aren't typically available to non-cops.