@Ivan , hope you have healed up well! how many lighter sparring sessions have you had recently leading up to this incident?
Hello. I am doing well. I healed up quite nicely within two weeks, and started with lighter sparring and scaled back up. I havenāt had the chance to experience the same level of sparring at kickboxing as my coach and a lot of other students have been off each for their own person.
However, I have gone back to my old hometown boxing gym as Iāve been nearby, and found a great sparring partner that is 20kg heavier, taller, faster and more experienced. He understands that I need harder sparring but also knows how to control his power. It has helped me get used to fighting bigger people, and has allowed me to see how much I have grown.
I have noticed that I am more able to stand my ground, and considerably less afraid of taking a punch. My proudest moment has been my progress with inside fighing, as I am now more comfortable with it, and even manage to land some very satisfying and sneaky uppercuts through the guard.
He has also helped to point out things I need to work on. A big one is reflex speed, since his jabs are quite fast and I have much more trouble slipping them than I usually do. My main problem however (in terms of moving forward to compete) is still experience, as I do find my flinch reflex returning in random occasions when sparring gets a bit more intense.
I am hoping in a few more months, I will have more developments on this. Although, I donāt know if this will be possible as I am moving back to Glasgow soon, and have not found a striking based martial arts gym with quality sparring yet. Moreover, I have considered focusing on grappling arts as I wish to become an extremely well rounded fighter, and I also believe that my goals are achievable without hits to the head weekly.
There are plenty of successful MMA fighters whose base martial art is one of grappling, and I could gain the sparring experience needed once and if I decide to fully undertake the challenges of competing in MMA.
As it stands right now, my passion is for all martial arts and fighting (whether striking or grappling) and I have no clue on which I wish to compete in first. What I do know, is that I wish for martial arts to stay with me for as long as I live, and I wonāt be able to achieve that or any of my other goals if I only focus on striking as it could lead to brain trauma complications.
I thank everyone here for your advice and I look forward to reading your threads, and updating you on other developments in my journey. Have a good one on me