Oh boy...
Be a student.
Okay, the longer version...
I attend a self-defense dojo ran by an instructor certified in an international Krav Maga Brand, and another international brand, which is essentially FMA boxing, body manipulation, and various weapons under a different name.
And how long have you been there? Why did you go there in the first place? I saw the references to convenience... and, bluntly, all that strikes me as is a sense of entitlement (I want what I want, where I can feel good about doing what I do, right on my doorstep, and everyone should cater to me and make my life easier). If that's the case, grow up.
Overall, the instruction is good. They know the techniques, the instructors know why the techniques are done, along with some other martial arts knowledge.
So... they know what they're doing, and why... okay...
However, Iām concerned no one understands the greater theory behind what theyāre doing, except that āthere are no rules in a street fight.ā When talking to older more experienced students, I get the impression that theyād never heard of FMA until attending these classes.
So... they don't know what they're doing, or why... or where it comes from... okay...
Oh, and the whole "there are no rules in a street fight" thing? Yeah... that's simplistic idiocy, honestly. Firstly, there are always rules, you just may not be aware of them. Secondly, there's no such thing as a "street fight". So anyone claiming to teach "self defence" that spouts such foolishness... that's what would have me walk out the door... and, if that's from you as well, well... yeah...
When doing basic FMA partner drills with knives, it was insisted that I focus on cutting.
So you were given the focus of the drill, but still think that you know better (in terms of the aims and reasons for the drill)? Shut up and be a student.
My background is primarily contemporary street-focused systems,
Firstly, what on earth are those? I haven't seen anything that would describe itself thusly without also being completely fantasy based over-reacting, fear-mongering foolishness with no actual grasp of the realities of the world. Secondly, so you trained something else, and are now at a primarily Krav Maga school that incorporates something somewhat similar to what you did before? Okay... shut up and be a student.
and so I know that in most situations, an average knife is not hefty or sharp enough to preform a fight-ending slice.
You know that? How do you know that? What do you classify as "an average knife"? What clothing are you going against? What kind of threats? What circumstances resulted in you getting into the (theoretical) knife conflict in the first place? Do you live in the Philippines? How do you classify "fight ending"? Have you considered that you don't actually know what you think you do? Or that there are other perspectives that also hold validity? You know how you can figure it out? Shut up and be a student.
You get a cut if itās available, but youāre really just using the knife to pry your way into a stab.
Are you? Well, that's automatically going for a potentially lethal response... is that always the case, do you think? Do you know how long it takes for people to die or be stopped by a thrust (or stab)? Do you know how precise such an action needs to be to genuinely "end" a fight? You know who might have a different aim for the usage of knives (or potentially even have an aim for the training to be to NOT get into such an idiotic position where that's the belief)? Your new teachers. You know how to find out? Shut up and be a student.
I know enough about FMA, to realize that the slicing moves derive from an assumption of bludgeons and heavy field blades.
Do you? Is that what the "slicing actions" are for? Bludgeons? You... er, do know what the verb "to bludgeon" means, yeah? You're also aware that there are a number of different FMA systems that deal with different styles and types of blades? You know how to get more awareness, yeah? Shut up and be a student.
I was told not to worry about it, and just do the drill as instructed.
Yeah. Shut up and be a student.
Iāve had the opportunity to study Shiv Works, prison fighting, revolver work, anti-abduction stuff, WW2 combatives, and then some.
Great, and? That's not what you're doing there (and, frankly, I worry about the psychology of someone who seeks out such fear-based training and education... I mean... are you working with inner-city gangs? Working in corrections? Just regular paranoid?). Shut up and be a student.
Ideally, Iād like to have a study group going.
So... you want to come into a new school, tell them you know more than them, then take their students to start your own group? Can you hear how that sounds? If you have enough training to start a school, go for it. If not, and you don't have that level of insight and qualifications, guess what? Shut up and be a student.
I feel like it would be completely new to them.
Your perspective is exactly that... your perspective. It's borne from your personal experience and training choices, but it's not the only one, and certainly not the only valid one. Maybe start from the perspective that their approach is completely new to you, and... Shut up and be a student.
I think they understand and respect that Iāve had previous, diverse training.
Look, a peek behind the curtain here... I have never been been particularly impressed or overly concerned with the previous training of any student. At best, it can give some idea of what frame of reference they may have, but in the majority of cases, it just means I have to work through some pre-programming and break through or past it. Those that can't put it aside and learn, leave. Either of their own accord, or they are simply invited to not return. So... Shut up and be a student.
Yet, I suspect the students and instructors are, for now, more interested in my assimilation than my input.
Of course they are. You're joining their class. It's not your class. So... Shut up and be a student.
But I donāt know if thatās the general mentality, or if I simply need to bridge the communication gap.
The communication gap is on your side. You're there to learn what they're offering, not to bring your own (potentially limited) ideas and ego to show them the "truth" of what they're doing. Shut up and be a student.
I have a good relationship with all the instructors.
Do you? Again, if this was my class, and you couldn't get past this, I wouldn't be your teacher for long... so... to keep this "good relationship"... you know what to do? Shut up and be a student.
Does anyone think I can convince them?
You're not in a position to. You're a student. It's their class. They get to decide what's important, what's not, what's of value, what's not, how things are best addressed, and so on. Not only can't you, you have no right to even think you should. Shut up and be a student.
If so, how should I approach the head instructor?
By apologising, and saying you're going to shut up and be a student.
I didnāt realize the idea of questioning an instructor was so controversial.
It's not. But that's not what you're doing. You're telling them you have a better way of doing their class, and you know more about what's important and what isn't. You're not questioning them, you're lecturing them. Shut up and be a student.
āConvinceā interest in an area of study, that is in alignment with what they teach, which is supposed to be RSBD.
It's not RBSD. It's a form of combatives with a martial arts flavour, catering to a para-military image and survivalist bent. It's not RBSD... that's more about understanding the legal and social context.
With all due respect, I donāt think you know as much about knives as you think you do.
Absolutely seconded.
Been studying knife since 2019.
Aw, cute. 93 for me. With training in a couple of arts (unarmed) before that. And a lot over the last 30+ years from a range of cultures, with a whole mess of weapons. Buka a lot longer, as well, so you know. Same with quite a few people that have been answering you the same way I am.
This thought has crossed my mind as well, earn their respect before opening my mouth fully.
Remove the last word there. You may find that, by the time you do, you don't need to at all.
I told them my training background, and I donāt think they had any clue what I was talking about.
Or just weren't impressed (I'm not), or didn't care. You trained in other things earlier? Okay, great. But you're here to learn what we do. So.................
Shut up and be a student.
Or leave if you can't.