Hi to all, a friend on this forum asked me to check out this post and also asked what I thought and for my input. I appreciate that. Actually, imho, as my viewpoint goes, everyone here had something to offer that I can agree with, there are a few areas that I may vary slightly but all in all, very interesting perspectives.
Again, respectfully these are only my opinions:
Nothing can really simulate a good rock'n sock'n all out reality fight, although, boxers, kickboxers, wrestlers and UFC type fighters are about as close as you're going to get while still keeping things civil. I believe these are referred to as the 'live arts'. What you use, is not in theory or suggested in the sense, okay, good point if it landed.........in these fights as we all know, the technique either does it's job or it doesn't. No gray area, no debate.
Next, the measure of a man/woman's toughness is not how much they can dish out but how much they can take. Anyone can deliver a beating, it's perservering that makes the victor. That's why I'll always believe in that old Hawaiian way of training that is talked about and for those old enough who can remmebr as it carried over into the 60's and 70's. Some schools still do it. How about John Hackleman 'The Pit Master' and his students of the Walter L.N. Godin lineage? Part of this toughness is also the physical conditoning, so although still not an actual no holds barred fights, the training and experience is about as close as you're going to come. I agree, though, there are still rules whereas there are no rules in reality fighting.
Now, about not going to the ground. Well, I understand the point of view but in reality we may have no choice. Icy parking lot, wet sidewalk, light snow, sandy street, the beach, crowded apartment or nightclub with furniture, simply tripping, maybe over a curb, dress shoes, especially women, one too many drinks if you indulge, I guess you could say a simple act of God, or let's put ego aside, your opponent was just that damn good and 'took you down'. As far as how many fights go to the ground, all I can say is you better be prepared because it happens. Like others here, I'm a veteran police offcier and I also worked in clubs and I guess you could say I was a bit of a scrapper growing up when I had to be. It happens and it happens more than you might believe. Now, if you throw a pre-emptive strike and overwelm your opponent with a good tactical blitz or knock him out with the first one or two shots, ya, I grant you, he'll be the one going to the ground but you may have to be reactionary and now that changes everything. Two many varibables, two many things can happen and you should feel just as comfortable on the ground as on your feet. Reason? hey, there's some good grapplers out there, not too mention just a good old 'tough as nails' football player and they are going to be very comfortable taking you there. I don't underestimate know one's ability and I am not arrogant to think I can't be taken down, so fine, if it happens, I want to feel comfortable there. I don't want to feel like I was taken out of my environment because then, you lose!
Another reason it may be you that decides to take it to the ground. Hold on before I get lambasted for this,lol. Let's say you happen to know your opponent and let's say from your knowledge of him he is superior to you with his hands, a knockout reputation but has no experience in grappling, why? because he's never on the ground, his rep is a successful KO punch. You on the other hand are very good but not a fair match with your hands, however, you are one helluva grappler and have been known to take them down and choke them out! Now, you take him out of his environment, you know, like a fish out of water!
In closing, I think a fair share of fights go to the ground but I don't think we should dwell on a percentage for it doesn't matter. If a minimal went down who's to say it can't happen to you. It's simply planning for what the military calls 'friction'. Back in the Carter administration we sent some special ops helicopters during the Iran hostage situation for a rescue mission. It was a disaster because we didn't plan for sand stroms over the desert and the engines on the choppers weren't protected properly and they went down with no survivors. Hey, sandstorms in that region didn't happen every day but the point is, they do happen and there was no precaution taken, hense, the 'friction' concept of your ideal plan and then you cover anything that can go wrong to screw it up. Thanks guys, just my perspective.