Over on FMAtalk a guy justified his post with the old cliche, "...after all, most fights go to the ground" (meaning that both fighters end up on the ground grappling). Well that's the way it is a lot of times in UFC. And that's the way it was when I got into fights as a kid...but I was a wrestler and that's all I knew then. But when you are talking about life-or-death self defense, and not brawling "duels" fueled by alcohol and ego, I'd rather put the other guy on the ground and stay standing myself. Especially now that I'm in my mid fifties. I really don't want to be rolling on the pavement, grappling with a gang banger whose 30+ years my junior. I figure that I don't fight anymore, so if I do get into it, it's because I have absolutely no choice. In that case, I will try to end it quickly and get out alive.
So here's my question. When you are talking real self-defense...do most encounters actually go to the ground? What is the reality here?
Without putting a number on it, from my experience, most fights where BOTH parties are actively engaged, often do end up on the ground in some fashion..........either both parties going to the ground, or one ending up on the ground, while the other kicks, stomps, etc.
Many of the reasons things go to the ground, however, vary.....some folks do purposely take things to the ground, but more often, in my experience, they end up there becaise they got knocked to the ground by a punch.....or ended up there as a resulting of accidentally tripping over something in the environment, such as a water meter lid, a trash can or the curb. The chaotic environmental situation of a 'street fight' often comes in to play........it's hard to fight in a yard full of debris without tripping.
Then the question becomes do they stay on the ground? Again, this varies......quite often fights will go the ground more than once over the course of a fight, with the party ending up the ground scrambling to their feet to the continue the fight.
Moreover, most fights are rather mobile affairs, with one party retreating, and another advancing, and considerable ground may be covered in a running fight.
Now, of course, if one person is far more skilled and/or physically larger and/or stronger than his opponent, he can far more easily control whether he goes to the ground in a fight. Two more or less equal opponents, however, are more subject to accidentally ending up on the ground in the dynamic pushing/pulling/bumping/slamming of a real fight.