Hot head rolling partner

[Gnarlie]

I'm not his coach or his daddy..(at least I hope not lol) so I'm not going to spend extra time working with a kid who's been violent towards me and others. That's up to the instructor and his parents

Interesting. So you find it creates a problem for you rolling with him but you don't view yourself as having any responsibility in resolving issues you have with your training partner?

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Headhunter]

Interesting. So you find it creates a problem for you rolling with him but you don't view yourself as having any responsibility in resolving issues you have with your training partner?

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

It doesn't cause any problem for me I can handle that punk kid just fine and no it's not my responsibility it's the instructors he's the one in charge he's the one that needs to sort out his students not me. I haven't got an issue with him he's just a hot headed punk who acts like that to everyone because of his ego. I'm no coach and no psychiatrist. I'm there to train not babysit a kid with a big ego

 

[drop bear]

Oh yeah because making a kid cry is such a great thing to do and doing that would make me so tough and not a total douche. If that's how you act then that shows the kind of person you are. I'm not going to injure a kid for a stupid piece of fabric.

My issue is the kid hurting other people who can't defend themselves as I have stated before. Because you see I don't just think about myself and my own ego

And yet your posts kind of scream out ego.

 

[Headhunter]

And yet your posts kind of scream out ego.

Okay whatever you say sorry if I don't pay any attention to a grown man who thinks it's a good idea to make kids cry

 

[Gnarlie]

It doesn't cause any problem for me I can handle that punk kid just fine and no it's not my responsibility it's the instructors he's the one in charge he's the one that needs to sort out his students not me. I haven't got an issue with him he's just a hot headed punk who acts like that to everyone because of his ego. I'm no coach and no psychiatrist. I'm there to train not babysit a kid with a big ego

And yet so far you have thought about punching him, gouging his eye, and breaking his arm, rather than talking to him. That's not handling him. That's failing to handle him.

Sounds like partly your issue dude.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Headhunter]

And yet so far you have thought about punching him, gouging his eye, and breaking his arm, rather than talking to him. That's not handling him. That's failing to handle him.

Sounds like partly your issue dude.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

Wait what? Do you have trouble reading? Seems you're struggling a bit there, I said I would gouge his eye if he continued squeezing on my neck after time runs out I would've defended myself if he attacked me and as for breaking that's just plain wrong since I said I literally let go of his arm so I didn't break it....maybe you should try reading a bit better. I'm not going to hold his hand and give him a hug it's not my job it's the instructors job. His club he deals with his scummy students not me. I don't like the kid for the way he acts so I'm not going to spend some more time with him

 

[Gnarlie]

Wait what? Do you have trouble reading? Seems you're struggling a bit there, I said I would gouge his eye if he continued squeezing on my neck after time runs out I would've defended myself if he attacked me and as for breaking that's just plain wrong since I said I literally let go of his arm so I didn't break it....maybe you should try reading a bit better. I'm not going to hold his hand and give him a hug it's not my job it's the instructors job. His club he deals with his scummy students not me. I don't like the kid for the way he acts so I'm not going to spend some more time with him

You thought about it.

So no, I don't have trouble reading, but thanks for making it personal.

If it's bordering on a situation where we are talking about assault during a training session, then there's something there for you to learn. Not everything is only the instructor's responsibility.

Maybe take some responsibility for your own training experience. There is more to training than physical skills. Interpersonal skills go a long way toward resolving situations like this without the need for an instructor to be involved.

If you care about this enough to be asking for advice about it here, then clearly it affects you. The quality of your training experience is within your gift.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Gnarlie]

His club he deals with his scummy students

Wow. This says much about your level of respect for your trainer and your fellow students. Sounds like six of one and half a dozen of the other.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Headhunter]

You thought about it.

So no, I don't have trouble reading, but thanks for making it personal.

If it's bordering on a situation where we are talking about assault during a training session, then there's something there for you to learn. Not everything is only the instructor's responsibility.

Maybe take some responsibility for your own training experience. There is more to training than physical skills. Interpersonal skills go a long way toward resolving situations like this without the need for an instructor to be involved.

If you care about this enough to be asking for advice about it here, then clearly it affects you. The quality of your training experience is within your gift.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

Um no it's called defending myself because some punks putting me in danger. I'm not going to be some kids punch bag and if he's yanking had on my neck after time has expiring or walking up on me like he's going attack me then damm right I'm going to defend myself

 

[Headhunter]

Wow. This says much about your level of respect for your trainer and your fellow students. Sounds like six of one and half a dozen of the other.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

Oh god here we go, Well it is his club it's an instructors job to deal with out of control students which this one is since as I have said multiple times he acts like this towards everyone. Umm don't start all this respect bs I respect him just fine but I'm not doing his job for him

 

[Gnarlie]

Um no it's called defending myself because some punks putting me in danger. I'm not going to be some kids punch bag and if he's yanking had on my neck after time has expiring or walking up on me like he's going attack me then damm right I'm going to defend myself

Thereby escalating a situation that could be so easily prevented or resolved with words before it comes to that. Not exactly grown up behaviour, is it?

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Gnarlie]

Oh god here we go, Well it is his club it's an instructors job to deal with out of control students which this one is since as I have said multiple times he acts like this towards everyone. Umm don't start all this respect bs I respect him just fine but I'm not doing his job for him

Scummy isn't a respectful word.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Headhunter]

Thereby escalating a situation that could be so easily prevented or resolved with words before it comes to that. Not exactly grown up behaviour, is it?

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

Again if you can read properly you'll know I told him time was up and he kept going so yeah I'm going to defend myself if I'm attacked

 

[Headhunter]

Scummy isn't a respectful word.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

Isn't it?...oh well I don't give a crap

 

[Gnarlie]

Again if you can read properly you'll know I told him time was up and he kept going so yeah I'm going to defend myself if I'm attacked

Rather than talk about it with him and let him know that it's not OK, you'd rather let it happen again and then punch him in the face. Sounds like a good martial arts attitude.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Gnarlie]

Isn't it?...oh well I don't give a crap

Clearly

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

 

[Headhunter]

Rather than talk about it with him and let him know that it's not OK, you'd rather let it happen again and then punch him in the face. Sounds like a good martial arts attitude.

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

Oh okay I'll just let him punch me in the face and try and talk in between punches and hope I'm not knocked out before finishing my mr miyagi speech. The kid wouldn't listen to me he thinks he's better than everyone he'd just ignore it I mean he's ignored the instructor so he's not going to listen to me and yeah if someone attacks me I'm defending myself I'm not going to attack first but if he swings on me I'm defending myself that's what martial arts is self defence and self defence isn't letting someone punch you in the face

 

[Headhunter]

Clearly

Sent from my Nexus 6P using Tapatalk

Well yeah....of course I don't...it's a word and I'll use what words I like I'm who I am I don't pretend to be something I'm not. I say my opinions and if people don't like that then that's their choice lol SCUMMY I can't believe you're upset over that word it's not a swear word it's discriminating against someone it's a word deal with it

 

[RTKDCMB]

If he is a danger to other students there is always the option of telling him to either shape up or take a hike.

 

[Dirty Dog]

ATTENTION ALL USERS:
Tempers appear to be rising. It would be best for all concerned if they cooled off a bit.
Further sniping and/or rude, personal attacks will result in points being issued, accounts being suspended, or closed.
Please don't make us do that. Keep the conversation polite and professional.

Mark A Cochran
@Dirty Dog
MartialTalk Senior Moderator