Well, we had the tournament this morning. It was an interesting experience. Iām glad we did it, but Iām not sure itās the kind of thing we will do often.
They had us in groups based on age and rank. My 6yo daughter only had one other person to compete against for forms. (The only other white belt her age). She did very poorly (couldnāt remember how to start her form) but Iām not surprised because she has continually refused to practice with me. The other girl did somewhat poorly as well (went the wrong direction and didnāt always do the correct side) but overall was light years ahead of my daughter. Because there were only two kids, my daughter still got a silver medal. Iām glad my daughter is happy, but I think it was silly that she still got a medal. How is she supposed to learn to work hard for things if she still gets a medal for not working hard?
For my pattern, there were four of us competing. So not much competition. There were two of us white belts and there were two orange (which comes right after white in this association). I was nervous at first but I got to do my pattern last so that helped. I chose to do the same pattern as the orange belts did but did a much better job. Both of them got mixed up in at least one part and did the wrong move. Also, neither one had any power or snap to their techniques. The other white belt did the white belt pattern and did a good job for what it was but still no power and snap (though more understandable for her I think). Anyhow, I won first but there wasnāt much competition. It was supposed to be all adult colored belts but the one higher rank they had they moved to compete with the junior black belts because there was such a gap (she was several ranks above orange). Iām pleased with myself for doing well. I knew I mailed my pattern, but I would feel better about it if there had been more competition. Iām not a fan of participation awards and this is what that felt like. The head judge did ask me if I had prior experience in another system. Not sure if that was due to me doing something well or if my stances are still a bit off. My husband took video so Iāll have to go back and watch it.
For board breaking, my daughter got to break a board for the first time ever. They put all the boys and girls the same age together though, so there was more competition. There were three ranks competing and she didnāt medal. She was very disappointed but I was just impressed she was able to break one of her boards (heel stomp) since she has never tried before and she usually doesnāt give new things her all.
I did very poorly with the board breaks. They had us break two boards back to back (so double the thickness) twice. Both with a spinning side kick. Do one, run to the other side and do another. I got nervous about the double board thing because I hadnāt tried that yet. Then I didnāt like up properly (my instruction told me where to stand last time so I never thought about it). I stood square to the boards and when I turned, well I wasnāt square anymore. We were also told that speed counted so... I didnāt break either double board. Very frustrating. The second double board I missed so badly I scraped up the inside of my foot on the side of the board. There were only three of us adult colored belts competing though (myself and the two orange belts from earlier) so I got a participation award... I mean medal. I actually ended up in second (maybe because my form was better than the other orange belt that didnāt break any?). One of the orange belts broke one set of boards the other didnāt break any.
Sparring was weird. Rather than pair my daughter up with the other white belt girl, she had to spar with two taller boys who were higher ranks than her. Actually, they did all the kids in groups of three and did a round robin thing. So everyone medaled. Again, not impressed though my daughter was glad to get another medal. Third place. Iām more proud that she managed to score two points on one of the boys (the second one she sparred). She really needs to learn how to block.
I didnāt get to stay for sparring because it was way past nap time for my 1 & 3 year olds and they were having a really hard time in the bleachers. Since it was an hour drive I made the decision to just leave so we could get them to bed. I was too stressed by their behavior to focus on sparring anyway. Hopefully Iāll get to next time I go to a tournament (hopefully in two months). Next time Iāll leave the younger two home with dad. My 6yo seemed able to handle the noise pretty well so she should do ok next time.
So that was my experience. I will hopefully try one more tournament in April since that is closer to home, but I wonāt be traveling for any again until my youngest can go down for a nap without me. Once her sleep schedule gets thrown off it is a nightmare for several days until we get her back on track. Also, it would be more fun if there were more people to compete against. Itās hard to feel good about an award where there werenāt many competitors.
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Ah well done Michele, that's still awesome to hear, even if it was a weird first tournament for you
Some great points made by the others. And exactly right, as long as you were happy with how you went mostly that's the important thing. And even so, doing the preparation you did introduced a new type of focus to your training, and massive props to even entering a tournament to begin with. It takes courage, and a level of commitment and willingness to put yourself out there like that. Not to mention it's a great experience competing with those you've never trained with before.
And I'd imagine there had to be some criteria for the board breaking section if no boards were broken, and you maybe had the best form.
Yeah I know what you mean about it not being a big division and it not feeling as satisfying. But yeah I've learnt no matter what, how big the division is becomes irrelevant, you just focus on what you need to do.
The first tournament I entered last year in the sparring there were I think only five or six of us. I won my first round, and lost the second only just, and got silver. But I was absolutely stoked with how I went, considering this was my first tournament in what, 12 or 13 years or so. Forms there was only me and one other guy, and got gold there, but again, happy with how I went.
The second tournament last year was very funny. I'd been quite unwell for half the year, and wasn't 100%, but I didn't care, I really wanted to enter, as it was for the State championships which I qualified for, but not only that it was far more significant to me to just enter it as a sign of how much I'd gotten through and how far I'd come. I decided to only compete in forms as the body wasn't well enough for sparring. My prep began only one week before the tournament haha, so felt a bit underprepared! Rocked up on the day... And I was the only one in my division, no one to compete against! So I got guaranteed gold, as long as I performed my form. I by no means just slopped my way through it, I gave it my all, and was happy with it. A slight stumble at one point, but I was moreso absolutely thrilled that I'd come this far to be able to compete, considering just how unwell I was. See that's the thing, no one understands the context of the leadup to the tournament that everyone goes through, and it's different for everyone. For some people it's decided a couple of weeks before "ah yeah, whatever, I guess I'll do it" (which is fine btw), and for others it's a trial of months and months of incredible emotional battles, uphill clawing, despair, and just all-round rollercoasters...
I think the lead up speaks volumes about the benefits of the tournament, in some cases more than the actual event, and you learn quite a lot in that period
So definitely really great of you that you entered and had a go, and had a great result still. And every tournament will be different too, so see how the next one goes