Brother John as a participant in this thread I'd like to say that I agree with you that it is best to rise above it all, but I feel that there may have been a certain frustration that lead to the extreme rudeness on Mr. Durgan's part, although inexcusable. I agree with you that the tone was set early on. I liked the link and had this been a thread I posted and I disagreed with it's posting in my thread, I would have sought a different approach. However, the rest of the participants saw it through and this thread was finally moving in a more positive and productive direction when a personal insult was made to all the participants, but one, by another person posting here. His comments affected me personally and this type of blanket negativity is the reason I am reluctant to be a part of these Kenpo threads.Brother John said:OK sumDumguy-
Being snide with others is rude. Really rude. You set the tone, others kept it...no great shock there huh? Now you are taking up your ball and going home because OTHERS can dish but not take it?
Not very fitting with a man of your apparent intelligence.
Ignore your detractors, state what you want to state and move on. Rise above it.
Your Brother
John
It was my desire to come here as an intermediate student and learn about Kenpo. My thoughts should be intermediate reflecting my experience just as an experienced high ranking Kenpo stylist's thoughts should reflect the formulation of advanced thoughts pertaining to the art. I don't expect to be insulted for the stage of learning that I am in.
I would like to have seen Mr. Durgan rise above it, react differently, as well, but wonder if this is more like the straw that broke the camel's back than anything else. Also, as I stated in another thread, these reputation points and anonymous negative comments are counterproductive and unkind. I can't see a good purpose for allowing such a thing. This confirms it for me.
I find this all very unfortunate.:asian: